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33 Sure Signs Your Husband Is Cheating

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I think my husband is secretly chatting with someone else?

My husband has always been a gadget man, probably like most men. We have been married for three years and I have always trusted him, never had any doubts about our marriage. He works away all week and comes home at weekend. Recently he bought himself a second phone, and then a SIM for this phone. Again I never questioned it but over the last few months, I have caught him being shady with his phone. My attention was caught when he took a private call in our kitchen, normally he would tell me straight away who had phoned, but he didn't and he doesn't normally whisper, but on this occasion he did. When I asked him why he was whispering he said he didn't want to disturb me and told me it was his mate. Just that, raised suspicion in me for the first time ever I doubted him. I have asked him could I have his number for the new phone, just in case I cannot get hold of him if necessary on the usual number. He told me he doesn't use the phone so doesn't need to give the number out? And now when he is home he has his phone on silent, he acts shady in front of me, for instance, if I pass him, I have noticed he has a message box open, and when I pass he shuts it quickly. This has happened on several occasions and I have obviously challenged him. He denies he is talking to someone else. I asked him could I see his phone if he had nothing to hide and he points blank said no. I cannot get access to his phone because he carries it everywhere with him, which incidentally he never did before. We are now at loggerheads over this, I have told him what I think, he denies it, and I know he is being secretive with his phone. Of course, he tries to make me feel guilty for his behavior. I feel as though I cannot trust him anymore, this is the second marriage for both of us, my first marriage ended with my ex-husband doing exactly the same with his phone, he denied it and has since married the person he was messaging. Like I have said I never had any doubts before, but his behavior with his phone is just creating suspicion. He is trying to make out it is my imagination, we tried to sort things out, I tried to brush it under the carpet, hoping we could solve this, and within the weekend we spend together because of his work, it all started again, him getting messages after midnight, then telling me it was an update for the weather. Then disappears to the toilet for 20 minutes or more...with his phone. Then tells me he is going downstairs to make a drink and is gone for over an hour. When I questioned why it was taking so long to make a brew, he said he was feeling sick and would stay by the toilet downstairs so as not to disturb me (with his phone), which I found strange seeing as we have a toilet upstairs too. Please tell me I am right to be this suspicious because I am at a point where I just want to end the marriage, I don't want to go through all this pain and uncertainty again! I'm not sure whether it is different, but for this to happen in a second marriage is strange. I have tried: I have confronted him and tried to talk, he denies anything and then will not talk about it anymore, says he doesn't want to keep going over old ground. I think it was caused by: Just the fact that he is being secretive with his phone, he doesn't phone or message chat with me as much as he used to. That he is acting suspiciously with his phone

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He been taking me he's wanted me all day now he can't get a hard on n normally after sex he can't get it up did he cheat on me?

He's told me I don't think I can get a hard on

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I've been married for 20 years. The past 5 years my husband has become very different... could he be cheating? And if so, how do I get him to confess?

My husband is out most days of the week until 2-3AM. I'm lucky if he gets home at all on a Friday or Saturday night. I've asked if he is having an affair and after 9 times avoiding the question he said no. 3 years back he started smoking. He has put us in over 1000 debt on credit cards with his drinking (don't ask). But I can't think how to go about finding out if he is cheating. I have no access to his phone, computer, or car. I don't know 1 person in his friendship circle. Oh, I sound so dumb typing all this, you probably think I'm blind, I'm not, but how do I prove it?

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My husband had cheated Ion me last, he said he broke up with her, but he still acting weird sometimes?

Last yr st this time my husband cheated on me. Married for 20 yr. but he is still hiding his phone and shutting his ringing off. Am I being paranoid? He went from expensive clothes and toning spending the night at a friend house. When I found out I gave him a choice. I told him he had to break it off with her and we work at it. Or I would sell the house and file for a divorce. He said this wasn't fair? Almost a yr has gone and he still hiding his phone in his pocket or turn his phone away from me. Please help

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Is my husband cheating while he his out late with friends and not wanting to spend time with the family?

My husband is always out every week 2 times a week and also when he get out of work he doesn't like to spend much time with his family and he not really sexually interested as much

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