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Get Your Boyfriend Forgive and Love Again After You Cheated on Him

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I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex and feel terrible about it. Will he ever forgive me and trust me again?

I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. But for the past few months we've had several issues and we broke up once before because he wanted something different. We got back together a while ago but I made a huge mistake and cheated on him with my ex. I don't have feelings for my ex anymore and I regret what happened so much. I told that to my boyfriend and apologized for what I did so many times and even got to his knees and said I was sorry. He was really upset, said that he couldn't trust me anymore and can't see me the same way as before. I'm really broken up because no matter what happened I still love him and I feel terrible for what I did. I want to make things right for him and I want to talk to him but I don't know if I should call him or just give him some space.

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How to gain trust and forgiveness?

I had sex with my baby's daddy's brother years before I became pregnant. I decided to tell him once I found out I was pregnant, but the oldest brother told before me, or the one I had sex with did. How can I ever get him to forgive me and build our bond back stronger?

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Your first steps will be to write an apology letter to your current partner, even though you are not guilty or do not feel guilty. This ensures that, be it you remain sincere in your apology and do not blame anyone but yourself, you may repair your relationship after some time passes (it may be years for some couples). Do not mention that you wanted to tell him the truth but were too late with that: this will change nothing but may make you look like as if you were covering yourself or trying to lie. Check how one should write an apology letter to your husband or your boyfriend. Do not forget to create an appropriate envelope. It might be a good idea to let him read it when he is away from you. Maybe either of you can be on a business trip or visiting parents. Give him time to process it and discover what his real feelings to you are. Maybe he will answer you in kind or call you up: just wait for his answer to see if he wants to be forever with you. If none of these options is possible, then the only solution will be getting relationship advice with or without your partner. With the help of a professional therapist and depending on the situation and your partner himself, all of the bonds and trust may come back.

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My boyfriend is ending relation with me after I hurt and cheated on him. What should I do to gain his trust back?

My boyfriend's past and my past have been very bad. We've both been cheated in the past. And before us dating we promised each other to keep it real & we won't ever cheat on each other. But after dating the 4th day, I hooked up with another guy, I confessed it to him and he was really hurt about it. He told me how hurt he was. But then I sorted things out he forgave me and we were cool. Days passed by, everything was fine. But then again I lied to him and he caught me lying. I lied to him many times but then I again made it up to him and promised him I won't ever lie. But he just feels very hard to trust me back. He doubts me every time, because I lied to him by roaming with other guys. He says its very hard for me to trust you. I'm sick of it, just leave me alone I need time. I regret it a lot because I didn't want to hurt him again, and I don't want him to end our relation. He just doesn't trust me what do you do to gain his trust back again? He is sick of it and I don't want him to leave. I want us to be the happy couple again. I have tried: I have tried telling him I won't ever lie to you again. But he just feels its hard for him to trust me. He says if you could cheat me once you could do it anytime. I promised him I won't ever do it again but he keeps doubting me because I have even lied to him and hurt him a lot. But I'm trying to gain his trust, I have tried texting him but he doesn't reply to my texts after reading. I think it was caused by: Its because of me, I wouldn't cheat or lie to him, we would have been the happiest couple. He hasn't cheated or lied to me ever but I have done. Its all my mistake

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How can I get my ex boyfriend to love respect and trust me?

I have cheated on him twice but believe me I really and would like to spend the rest of my life with him. I have tried: Try asking for forgiveness second chance so I could prove myself that I am a change person. I think it was caused by: I think its way how he treated me he kind of neglected me in a way

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