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How to stop other girls flirting with him online? Fear of him getting messages from girls trying to break us up?
I do trust my boyfriend but there was one time early on in the relationship when I found out he was keeping in touch with a girl he briefly dated before me! I asked him previously if I was the only one and he said yes.. a few months in I saw her giving him loads of attention daily online, messaging him asking to meet up, even though they used to sleep together and she knows he's with me. It took a lot of persuading but I finally got him to delete her and stop communication. Now whenever I see a girl giving him loads of daily attention I panic. I've spoken to him about this other girl in particular who constantly likes/comments on all his posts. In a club, she came up to him and kissed him on the cheek right in front of me, something that's not really 'normal' over here. The attention he seems to get from her is only getting worse now. He must feel I'm watching her every move and coming across as controlling- is it wrong to ask to see his messages from her? I haven't done that yet but I feel like I need to know what she's saying to him. It's driving me insane with panic that her attention is moving her closer and closer to him, I'm feeling pushed out. What can I do to keep my man only interested in me, when I'm feeling threatened by other girls demanding his attention? Sometimes I feel he gives it back but I've noticed since I confronted him about her, it's less.. but not enough to ease my mind that there aren't messages going on in secret. I don't want it to be a recurring thing. I do feel secure and happy with myself, and I don't exactly fear him cheating on me, more just flirty communication with other girls in case they think he likes them back or try to break us up on purpose.
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