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Detect if your girlfriend likes another guy

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Why did she fall for another guy?

I'm in my 3rd year in college. Because I'm the best student in my class, I was assigned to this 1st-year girl to be her mentor and help her in her studies. Our friendship turned romantic within the 1st week, even though she already had a boyfriend. She admitted later on that we she would have accepted me as a boyfriend she had not been dating. We spent a lot of time with each other several times a week until she broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months ago. She claims we can't be dating right now because it will make it seem like she broke up with him because of me. I've tried convincing her otherwise, but she wouldn't change her mind. Then all of a sudden, she tells me another guy has caught her attention and her interest in me has dwindled. Three of her closest female friends have actually mentioned to me on different occasions that she's beginning to spend a lot of time with the other guy and they think she might end up with the other guy instead of me.

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Please this is killing me because I love her and I know she likes me a lot (at least she used to). We've gone through a lot - she kissed me once while she was still with her boyfriend. I just don't understand why she suddenly thinks another guy deserves her love. Why did she fall for the other guy just after she breaks up with her boyfriend? What do I do now? Do I just forget her or try to win back her heart?

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She is more in love with "infatuation euphoria" than your love in a relationship. You were interesting to her while she was dangerously seeing you at the risk of her current relationship. Once she broke it off with her boyfriend she lost interest with you which means that is was not you that interested her during your time together but the challenge of not getting caught. You also have to remember that you are almost done with college while she is just starting. Your ages may only be a few years apart but decision making and maturity can be dramatic between the ages of 18 and 25.

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You need to move on. She has told you that she wants to be with someone else and even if you influence her to come back you will never be able to fully trust her. You can't make someone else love you. Get over someone you love is a VisiHow article you should read. Be glad that things did not get more serious with her because the pain from the loss would have been even worse that what you are feeling now.

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My girlfriend sits close to me?

Sits close to me but this kid is trying to get my girl

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Some people see others in relationships as a target. It is more about the challenge of gaining their interest and then walking away once they leave their boyfriend/girlfriend. Almost like a game that they won. Once the win happens they are satiated and move on. If you trust your girlfriend then there is nothing to worry about. The guy may just have an interest in her as a friend but you should at least confront him if he oversteps friendship boundaries. Maybe you think he is after your girlfriend but he is not and it is just his personality to be super friendly.

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My girlfriend hangs out with a guy whom she knows has a crush on her?

My girlfriend and I live far away from each other. I have no idea what's going on in her society. Recently I found out that a boy who is her great friend had a crush on her. My girlfriend and that boy are really great friends and often do things together, go places together etc., but even after she found out that the boy had a crush on her, she continued hanging out with him. I feel that she should have stopped talking to that guy, but she doesn't. I'm completely confused and hurt. I don't want to talk about this situation with her and make her feel as if I'm being overprotective. I just want her to realize how much I love her, and how much it hurts me to see that boy hanging out with her every day, please help, thanks !. I have tried: Nothing except talk to my friends about it. I think it was caused by: That boy, my girlfriend and probably my insecurity.

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I want to know whether I get my girl, whom I love a lot?

She was a stranger. I travel in bus to office and I happened to see her frequently in the bus where I travel and I admired her and I observed her and I will take her bag and keep it with me when she is holding her bag and she gives her bag with a kinda smile and I love her sweet smile and now I love her a lot. A month before, I followed her as I am totally crazy on her love and said to her that I am seeing you in the bus a lot of times and I can get introduced to her and she said her name and I said, this is just friendship to her though I love her a lot. Next time, when I tried to meet her, she tried to move away from me but then I met her and she said that she is going to get engaged and I conveyed my congrats to her. Further, I am not seeing her in the bus at all after I conveyed my friendship to her. After two weeks I happened to see her, but she just had a look at me and she didn't smile. Further I happened to see her incidentally and she smiled at me. Two days before, when I saw quite a few distance from her, she observed me and when I neared her and her friends besides her, she didn't look me though I am looking at her. Whether she acted like this because of her friends besides her and because of her engagement. Now I cannot talk to her because she felt kind of discomfort when I am near her and I had to leave this situation to her to decide whether to like me or not. Whatever may be I love this girl. Whether she will friendship with me or not or love me. Kindly tell me Sir. I am always thinking of her.

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We head to the pub every weekend and my girlfriend always end up smoking with this one guy?

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Why she does meet with another guy at 12 in the night?

Hey, I was wondering if you could give me some more information about what is happening.. . My girlfriend is meeting with another guy at 12:00 PM she leaves the house to meet him, she asked me if I was alright with it, but I said yes because I want her to be free, now she is with that guy. I already saw her post a photo of both of them together with her saying: You look nice.. . Right now I don't know what to do. Please help me. I have tried: Nothing, she used to check my phone, so I did the same with hers (even when she was around). I think it was caused by: She said to me a couple of times that I was boring, she also does not give me much attention and doesn't want me to touch her.

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How will I know if my girlfriend is honest or faithful to me?

Sometimes my girlfriend was excused when I plan to meet her so, then almost two weeks I never meet her privately, but in public, I meet him and the story with her what's the problem?

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Sir I detect most of these signs in my girlfriend please advice to get her attention back to me?

Hi, I am Nishant from India. My girlfriend and I have been dating since one and a half year. In last 4-5 months she's texting too much to one of her male friends who happens to have feelings for my girlfriend. She is completely aware of this fact. And in those few months I have noticed a gap between us mentally as well as sexually. I have noticed these signs in her. All the points of how does she treats me fits right on my situation. I really love this girl and I believe her this behaviour is not because of her attraction to that guy but due to fights between us in these past few months. I am confused what is it . Can you please help. Also I love her very much and I plan to marry her but before that I want to fix this relationship. I want her attention in me and I want to get mentally and sexually in sync with her. What should I do...?. I have tried: I tried to ask her about my doubt, she denied having feelings for him. but she deliberately kept secrets from me about him and her once going out for lunch together when we had a fight.

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Apart from that I try many things to get her attention back to me like cooking for her and giving her a massage when she's tired, helping her in everything, being there for her all the time.t. I think it was caused by: I think sometimes I get jealous and insecure when she texts him till very late up to 3-4 am in the morning. so when I ask her what were you talking about it makes her angry. I think I annoy her too much by asking too many questions.

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I once told my best friend about our physical intimacy and she found out that made her really angry.

I think I'm with her all the time so I think she has got bored of me. and this guy has good sense of humour so she texts him too much and then when I get jealous and insecure she gets angry very much and then ask me to trust her or break up if I can't trust her.

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I would like to clarify that I get jealous only because she has not told him about our relationship. although we hang out together sometimes but in front of him she treats me like her just friend and when we are alone when I question her about thus she says that since I've been fighting a lot she's not sure of this relationship. when she'll be sure she'll tell everyone here. 

I'm really confused sir. I very much need your advice.

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