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Spy On Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend or Children's Text Messages and Emails from a Cellphone

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My husband has a GSM phone, I need to access his calls/messages?

Hi, its unfortunate I am going this way, but I need evidence on my husband's phone activities as I believe things are happening that should not be. He has an old GSM phone, usually silent at night, takes it everywhere with him, I have no access to it. I have a couple of times taken it while he was sleeping and saw some texts that were incredibly painful, but now, I just want to make sure that my suspicions are right. He claims everything is in my head, the usual crap you get fed. If I see it, then its time to leave this guy. I am a westerner living in India and alone, so you can imagine how life is. Is there anything out there that can help that won't cost preferably, as he doesn't give me much money and watches it, thanks

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The Android OS of your husband's phone may be too old for any spy apps. It is very sad that you have seen text messages that cause you pain. These text messages that you saw are not in your head and even if they were he should be acknowledging how you feel instead of putting blame on your doubts. The fact that he is constantly on guard with his phone and that you already saw messages can only make sense if he was cheating or, at least, acting out fantasies of cheating on his phone.

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You feel isolated as a Westerner in India but it is time to look for support groups or social groups of other Westerners so that you will not feel so alone. Expatbriefing lists several social clubs for Ex Pats living in India. Look into one close to you and they will be able to offer you support as well as you will be able to meet new friends that have your common experiences. Doing this will bring life back into you and give you the strength to either work on your marriage or move on. You may find that suddenly your husband pays far more interest in you.

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How can I monitor my husband's text messages sent and incoming?

I found a woman's number on his iPhone, then he has been staying out all winter and she sent a text Friday night, should be here with me, I understand love you see you tomorrow


Spy apps like mSpy have software that you can install on his iPhone even if it is not jailbroken. These apps will give you his call logs, location history, browsing history, text messages and data from any other third party apps used for communication. Because you saw the loving text messages, be prepared to see that he is cheating. No one texts I love you see you tomorrow unless there is something emotionally there between them. Emotional affairs are far more damaging to a marriage vs. physical gratification affairs.

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I have a work phone that I am able to use for personal use and someone at the office now is knowing my personal info that only I texted to my husband. How can I stop this and find out who is doing it?

How can I stop someone from seeing my text messages?


Your employer has a spy app on your phone. They are allowed to do this in many regions because they are the owner of the phone and you technically borrow it for work. You can remove the spyware but they will immediately know. In the future, avoid texting any personal info or making phone calls that you would not want them to listen in on.

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Gaining access to girlfriend phone?

I need to simply know if I need to walk away or not.. I have tried: Asking, watching change in mood. I think it was caused by: Not sure honestly

At this point you have a communication problem that should be resolved with a face-to-face talk. If you are asking her directly if she still wants to be with you and she is not responding then you may need to ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who is so mysterious and closed up about their feelings in the first place. The withholding of the truth about her feelings for you is dishonest and if she is not sure or confused about going forward in life with you, she should at least be able to have a conversation with you about her doubts.

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You could easily procure any of the spy programs mentioned in the article Spy on Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend or Children's Text Messages and Emails from a Cellphone as long as you have access to her cell phone for about twenty minutes to load up the program. However there is no guarantee that you will find reason to leave her after monitoring her cell phone as she may simply have decided that she is no longer interested in you and does not know how to tell you.

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How can I see my girlfriend WhatsApp messages without having her phone?

How can I see my girlfriend WhatsApp messages without having her phone

For third party apps like WhatsApp to be monitored you usually have to root the phone and physically install the spy app. You will have to go to the websites of mSpy, FlexiSpy, Highster Mobile and TruthSpy and determine which installation method works best for you. Because you do not have access to the phone all the time, make

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How to view messages of WhatsApp of others mobile?

How to view messages of WhatsApp of boyfriend's mobile without letting him know and without any survey in the software

Reputable spy apps like FlexiSpy do not require you to fill out a survey. If you are looking for a free trial some may ask for a survey. TruthSpy offers a 48 hour free trial and you want to get a decent app that will not be detected and is reliable. These apps run in the background with no indications that they are on the phone. Make sure whatever app you choose offers customer support.

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How can I see someones text messages from my laptop?

My boyfriend is cheating and I want to know with whom before I accuse him. I have tried: Stealing his phone. I think it was caused by: I'm not sure

All the apps mentioned on this page have Control Panel links that can be accessed on your computer. Some of the apps install without you touching his phone if he has the phone jailbroken but you may need to root the phone so make sure you have at least a 30 minute window to install the app without him knowing.

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How can I check messages from my boyfriend's cell phone without touching it?

My boyfriend always deceive me on chatting. How can I get or take messages from his cell phone inbox. He is away from me. If there is a software tell me please or any other method. I am really worried about it. If you are so expert please tell me about it.

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You will need to be near his phone to install a spy app. Auto Forward can be accessed with just the person's telephone number but you will only get minimum monitoring until you can root the phone if it is Android.

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How do I read this persons text messages?

We haven't talked in 3 days. He usually talks to me all the time. I just want to know if there is another girl.. I have tried: None.. I think it was caused by: Our fight.

He is probably just avoiding you after the fight. You would need to install a spy app on his phone and the best way to do that is to have access to the phone. If you think that he needs a bigger apology then you should be making strides on mending your relationship. Get Your Boyfriend to Forgive You is a VisiHow article that gives suggestions on asking for forgiveness.

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How can I see messages on my wife's phone without having her phone physically in my presence?

I would like to see the messages on my wife's phone. I believe she is hiding something from me. Is there a way I can see her messages from a computer.. I have tried: I have tried looking at my Sprint account

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If you reside with her then you can use an app like FlexiSpy to install the spy app over your home WiFi. Sprint Family Safety Essentials offers a free trial and with that you can monitor her phone's GPS as well as block and numbers or calls to her phone.

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My question; what my love do text to any other girl?

I want to know if my love do talk to any other girl, he was saying to me he never do

To monitor his text messages you can install any one of the spy apps mentioned on this page and in the VisiHow article below.

Seeing numbers dialed/received/texts, from partner non smart phone, and not able to touch?

Hi, basically I definitely can't get hold of boyfriend's non smart phone but I am desperate to see his call history and texts, can I do this without getting hold of his phone, please help thanks

Because his phone is not a smartphone you will need to physically go through his phone to see if there are any text message or deleted text messages. He will delete if he does not want you to possibly see something so if you see several deleted messages from one number then you know something is up.

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I have T-Mobile family plan and want to see text from one other line?

I have T-Mobile family plan and want to see text from one other line

Unfortunately it would be a breach of privacy for T-Mobile to store text messages on their server. You can see the phone number and whether the message was inbound or outbound. FamilyWhere App from T-Mobile allows you to see in real time where their location is so this may be a low cost alternative for you to pursue. Otherwise you can install a spy app and if the text message is on the phone still you will be able to see it as well as any deleted messages that have not been overwritten.

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Just seen my kids messages and why he hides stuff from me?

He keeps lying to me and I want to know the truth. I have tried: Everything possible. I think it was caused by: Dad leaving

Many parents have a spy app on their child's phone. Not only for peace of mind but also safety monitoring. Since you feel that his is lying and he is having a hard time with his father leaving the home a spy app will be the best way to see that he is staying on the straight and narrow.

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Can I get texts from three years ago?

How can I get my husband's texts and messages from three years ago?

No, because the messages have definitely been overwritten. You can ask the cellphone service provider for records from three years back and that at least will show you the number that was texting him and whether he was texting back.

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I wanted to pull up old messages for free from, like, months ago?

I wanted to see what he and one of his female messages had been about because I just found out that he had cheated.

It is not likely that information that was erased long time ago is recoverable. Also, file recovery software is not free. There is FonePaw Recovery that might help you (the step-by-step instructions for recovery are in that link).

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