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Tell Your Dad You Know He's Cheating on Your Mom

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How do I tell my mum, that my dad is cheating?

If you know about iPhone, my dad uses voice on it to text so I can hear him saying to a girl who he has nicknamed yo yo ' I love you' and ' should we meet up someplace'. what should I do. I have tried: I haven't tried anything. I think it was caused by: I don't know

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First approach your Dad and make him aware of what you overheard. Give him the option of telling your mother before you do. He may deny anything happening but stick to your gut and insist that he have a conversation with your mother. Your mother should know what is happening if nothing other than to attend to you and your doubts and feelings about your father cheating.

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My Dad might be cheating and I have no idea what to do?

My dad was grumpy and left for the weekend and when he came back my mum (my mum is blind) she asked me to check his phone and then I looked at his internet and there was something that said secret lovers or something and I have no idea what to do. When my dad is angry he shuts everyone out and doesn't talk. He still isn't talking and even when I do try to talk to him he generally blocks my out because he doesn't know how to talk to me cause his parents sucks. Also I'm only 16 so this is really difficult.. I have tried: Nothing I just found out but I'm completely freaking out. I think it was caused by: My sister is in the navy and she was a slut so she now has twin sons and because she went away we have to look after them but my dad has emotional issues, he couldn't handle the struggle of looking after them even though he did barely any of the work.

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Unfortunately, the way you refer to your sister tells me that you do not have a great respect for your family. What you saw on his phone could just be him acting out online fantasy and although that is not physical cheating, it is still untrustworthy. Your parents could be fighting and he may not want to talk to you about their issues because you are still a child in his eyes. Tell him outright that you saw questionable things on his phone. Ask him to speak with you about this as you are confused. Check out the VisiHow article Deal With Parental Issues as well.

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How can I find out that my dad is cheating?

I think that something is happening which endanger their marriage. He spends most of his time talking on the phone with someone. He comes home late at night. I have tried: I've tried to talk to him but he changes the subject. I think it was caused by: His office

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Can you help me? I think my dad's cheating?

I'm 16 and my parents have been married for like 26/27 years. Today just before I went to bed I saw over his shoulder that he had texted someone a shirtless picture. Some one who wasn't my mom. And in the past he's been very protective of his phone. He even changed our computer password and won't tell me what the password is because he doesn't want mom to be able to ask me for the password because she "snoops" those are his words exactly. I want to tell my mom but I don't want the family to fall apart. I have really bad anxiety problem and this is really bothering me. Please help.. I have tried: I've done nothing so far, it literally happened 10 minutes ago.. I think it was caused by: I don't know what could have caused it, it's very strange behavior. My dad is not the best person in the world but I wouldn't think he would cheat on my mom.

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So I'm in a different situitation here, mom knows my dad is cheating but she thinks that if we confront him he will bring his girlfriend home and marry her?

My dad has got a girlfriend and we know about it and basically the above part

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Few years ago it was brought to my notice by my dad that my mum was cheating on him, he has tried all his best to stop her

Now, I am the first child of the family of ten including parents, my dad brought this ugly behavior of my mum, I investigated the case and discovered that it's true and I went to mum in a very secret and lonely time and she denied it, I told her every evidence that I have and also told her negative aspect of it to children and family at large she turned aggressively to me to the extend of cursing me. Did I commit crime at approaching her at initial and this has made me to passionately hate her, please help!

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What if my dad decides to abandon me after I tell him I know he is cheating?

I live in a third world country so it's important that I get my education and go to a more developed country for higher studies. My dad is paying for me, but if I confront him, I'm afraid he may decide to abandon me and my mother. I won't have any way of continuing my studies because it's expensive here and only my dad can afford it since he is a doctor. Please help me. I am in a situation where, if my dad leaves, then my mother and I will have to be on the streets because it's a third world country. There is no other way for me to get higher education abroad if my dad does not pay for me. I have tried: I have seen messages on my mom's phone from a stranger giving precise details to what my dad has been doing. I've tried hiding it because if my mom found out, then she will get divorced or my dad will abandon us. I think it was caused by: My mother does not have the best relationship with my dad because she always pushed him a tad bit too far by starting fights all the time for the silliest of reasons. Because of his work as a doctor, my dad has always stayed in a rural area while my mother and I stayed in the city area. This probably drove them apart and may have caused him to seek company of another partner

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