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My best guy friend sometimes acts really weird. He's very moody. Our other guy best friend teases him regarding me and tells him that he should tell or admit something to me. He keeps on denying that he will not tell anything. When we're together, me, our other best friend, and him, (by the way my guy best friend who's I don't know if he's really in love with me is Rocky) our other best friend told me that they really talked about me and Rocky wants to say something but Rocky does not tell what is it. Actually, I admit to you that I love my best friend not only as best friends but more than that, but I don't want to enter in a relationship now. I have this "M.U." with another guy. Rocky always asks me if I answer those guys who want to court me. I told him that "no". Rocky knew that I loved him before, but now I don't think so, 'because I've got linked to other guy w/c was my 2ND M.You. That time he started to like other girls and admitting that he likes that girl, he told me that he likes that girl. I got confused because our other guy best friend told me that Rocky will tell something to me but Rocky does not tell it to me. I really don't want to assume but I WANT TO KNOW if does it really mean, thanks for the answer?

My best guy friend sometimes acts really weird. He's very moody. Our other guy best friend teases him regarding me and tell him that he should tell or admit something to me. He keeps on denying that he will not tell anything. When we're together, me, our other best friend, and him, (by the way my guy best friend who's I don't know if he's really in love with me is Rocky) our other best friend told me that they really talked about me and Rocky wants to say something but Rocky do not tell what is it. Actually, I admit to you that I love my best friend not only as a best friend but more than that, but I don't want to enter in a relationship now. I have this "M.U." with another guy. Rocky always asks me if I answer those guys who want to court me. I told him that "no". Rocky knew that I love him before, but now I don't think so, 'because I've got linked to other guy w/c was my 2ND M.You. That time he started to like other girls and admitting that he likes that girl, he told me that he likes that girl. I got confused because our other guy best friend told me that Rocky will tell something to me but Rocky do not tell it to me. I really don't want to assume but I WANT TO KNOW if does it really mean, thanks for the answer

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What you should determine is why you are so eager to know if Rocky has feelings for you when you are in a mutual understanding with another guy. If you really do like Rocky and want a relationship with him, then end your understanding with the other guy. After a few weeks, let Rocky know that you did this because you are actually in love with him. There is no point to going back and forth with the teasing anymore. Be honest with him before it is too late. If you keep guessing and waiting he may find someone else because he gave up on waiting for you to say something. He is not telling you he has feelings because he is afraid of your reaction. He is also respecting the fact that you are in another relationship.

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How do I face my best friend next time, we kissed once and it wasn't intentional?

I love my best friend so much, we accidentally kissed the last time we met. Now I am shy, just shy to look at him in the face because I love him so much. I have tried: None. I think it was caused by: I love him and I think he does too

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Obviously, the kissing episode changed the dynamic of your friendship. Be upfront and ask him what direction he would like to go in terms of a friendship or relationship with you. Sometimes a kiss happens because two people get caught up in a moment but once that passes, they realize that it was a mistake. You won't know until you bypass the shyness and ask him if he would like something more with you.

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My boy best friend ever since I met him like 6 months ago

My boy best friend, I have really known him for like half a year and we have grown so close its like crazy. We have the exact same interest and we always jinx each other even if it doesn't make any sense. People always mistake us for a couple saying couple goals and even our parents think we are dating. We always make those flirty jokes with each other and keep on going even though we both know we our jokes can go far haha and he always looks out for me. He always makes me laugh and the other way around and also considers me as his main best-friend. I've fallen for him but I don't know whether he likes me or not because we always hang out after school almost every day we always sit next to each other in class and the whole school practically thinks we are dating. We spent Christmas together and had a lot of "married couple fights" and he knows me better than anyone even myself he always knows how to make me smile when I'm feeling down and when I'm with him I also bring up his real laugh which he doesn't show often. In his phone, I'm his queen... my name and in mine, he is my king ... his name. He always wants to pay when we go eat somewhere and always stands up for me when someone else says something but I guess that is what best friends do. We have things crazy friendship and I don't know if he likes me back? We are both seniors in high school and I have just known him this school year. We practically became best friends ever since we met. We just had that click ya know and he always compares us to yin and yang. I have tried: I tried like being more close to him and he kind of did too. It was a joke and joined in and I wanted to tell him many times and when I did he said he's not mad or anything like I said I thought he would and was mad that I didn't tell him but I played it off and said that it was a while ago. I think it was caused by: I think just us hanging out more and his personality and the way he is the only one who can really make me laugh and has seen all my embarrassing moments

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Don't force a change right now. It seems you both are flowing into a relationship organically. Just keep going forward with him as you have been. The time to interject would be if you think he is about to date someone else. You should leave hints to let him know you are interested in more. Just be careful to not overwhelm him. Take your time and see where this goes between you both.

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How do I know if my best friend is interested when we've always flirted with each other? I know I'm falling but how does he feel the same?

We've been best friends for 3 years, and at first I had a massive crush on him. Then I met my ex and started dating him. As soon as I started dating my ex, my best friend started to like me but I had to let him down because I was in love with another guy. Now three years on we are both single and hang out when we can, mostly alone. He always teases me, but quite rudely (harsh jokes/calls me names) and I do the same back. We spend the whole time laughing and slowly get closer but never really touch. He always brings up how he never wants to kiss me and jokes how I'm in love with him (which I deny to save myself). I'm so confused because he only really this harsh towards me, what does this mean? He teases me with name calling and mocks my every action. He's noticed little weaknesses and always brings them up jokingly. I know he cares but he never fully admits it. He's always mean to me with a smile so I keep getting mixed messages. And he always brings up how he doesn't want to date me or kiss me out of nowhere, randomly in the conversation. I have tried: I've asked him to hang out alone a lot, most times he's said yes or admits he feels bad for blowing me off.

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I can't admit anything or try anything cause we both seem to be really careful around one another when it comes to getting too close.

He always hates people that are cruel to me and defends me so I've never tried to make him jealous. I think it was caused by: He's very closed off with his feelings and hides any intimate details about him with girls from me.

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