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33 Sure Signs Your Husband Is Cheating

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How do I know my husband is telling?

How do I know my husband is telling truth

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few days a friend who is also a neighbor visited me.She showed her phone to me and said your husband is making calls to me his behavior was bad with me. you check your husband every morning he's standing in front of my house they have been our family friends for 37 years. Recently my friend mother in law died they are very very close to our family.

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next morning I catch my husband standing in front of her house and I ask my husband whats going on here and why are you standing in front of her house. she told you treat her badly.

my husband got very angry. and he said I am standing in front of her house is true. because last few days before my friend and her husband was quarreling each other. I want to know about the issue because 3 years ago, my husband took my friend to her daughter's school During time my friend misbehaved with my husband. he gave advice to her. and stopped taking her. but he hasn't told this to me or to her husband.

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my friend was caught by her husband while she was having an affair with his company partner. that is one issue I know of

Then they go for a divorce, and are quarreling with each other. finally their family members interfered and got a smooth solution.

my husband called my friend and asked about that issue because my husband wants to know about their issue from 3 years before

my friend has told my husband no. this is another matter

me and my friend conversation she told me a lot of things about my husband your husband has so many affairs and they all are near my house you check your husband's phone and salary like this. but my friend made a call to her other friend and told me my husband was cheating with her. something like that. she made a call to me and said .

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but I know my husband will come on correct time and salary package was correct. and we are leading a good life

me and my husband's conversation was truthful. I know by his body language was telling truth he was crying and he accepted that he was standing in front of her house but I can't cheat with her. and I promise with our son. and my only mistake is I can't tell this to you and finally he said I told you every thing. I didn't tell any lie. here after you make a decision.

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what can I do. and how do I know my husband is telling truth.

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My husband continues to act different towards me and I'm not sure why?

Hello! My husband is a traveling electrician apprentice he makes about $16 an hour and has housing paid for we just recently got married back in October 2015, about a month after we were married I conceived, we were about to visit his family for Christmas when we found out I was pregnant. After we left his family to go back to work I started noticing weird things like he said he was going out to get groceries and he left about 12 in the after noon and didn't come back till about 2:30 which is about 2.5 hours later, he claims he got gas and was looking at baby stuff and showed me one picture only of something he was looking at, he preceded later on to make a phone call in his truck that lasted for about 20 minutes and I asked him what that was about and he claims he had a co worker. Asked him about us moving in every morning he leaves about two and half hours early to work, he wakes up angry accuses me of stuff, tries and picks fights with me and then claims he will be "late" for work when about that time he is still about an hour and a half early and his commute is only a 16. minutes away. He claims he wants to get good parking, he says he wants me to be sweeter but every time I have tried to be more affectionate he pushes me away. I asked him about if he is having an affair he got real defensive so I grabbed his phone and started looking through it, he started yelling and saying fine let me see your phone, I said it's right there while still reading his phone. I only got to see that he made a few phone calls to different areas like Indiana and areas in were we currently are. Before he snatched his phone out of my hands. I have tried many many sites and tricks and not sure what to do, he keeps pulling the divorce card saying he's tired of me jumping down his throat and continues to do what I call mirroring I say something towards him and he says the same thing but only towards me I need help. I have tried: The belly button trick (were you ask him if he is cheating and if his belly button is pointed away he is lying) I have tried online readings about men who cheat (turns out most of them are like my husband but my husband just looked down and said well I am not doing it). I have tried just simply talking to him and checking his phone every so often nothing seems to work. I think it was caused by: maybe he thinks he got married too fast, we were only dating for about two month's before we got married and possibility that he or we are going through some crisis because he is about to be a first-time dad and I have been kind of hormonal lately due to pregnancy.

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His behavior is avoiding contact with you owing to some personal reasons that he chooses not to disclose. It can be his reluctance to accept that he has chosen his life partner forever, his indecision, his desire not to be a parent, his finding another passion, or just a way to get away from it all and be alone. He might the type of persons who gets passionately infatuated and then calms down quite fast. He does not know what he wants, therefore confusing you with his demands to be more loving towards him and then rejecting it. He seems confused and seeking a way out of the situation. His lack of arguments when he "mirrors" you in quarrels only shows that you do not have to find fault with yourself. The "belly button trick" has little to do with truth. You can do little in this situation: you can drop control over him (do not check his smartphone or interrogate him), everything else that you will do will exasperate him, most likely, even distancing (he will accuse you of being cold). The only solution is to get professional relationship advice, but you have to come to the family therapist together. You can also find a good female friend to get acquainted with your husband (just do not tell him that you know each other) and try to make him open up and speak about his problems.

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My husband keeps all his friends a secret?

My husband keeps all his friends a secret

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What does husband's behavior mean?

When I am with my husband he texts/web surfs while I am talking, or yawns, or eyes roam around the room as if he is bored. Then if another woman approaches us he instantly becomes animated and engaging. I usually end up feeling humiliated and like the third wheel. When I share my feeling he denies that there is a problem and says how much he loves me. Or a variation on that is he tries to show that his communication skills are good because of how effective he can interact with his secretary. Should I be concerned or is the problem with me? Maybe it's time to update my look and/or social skills?

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You should be concerned about that. That is not only disrespectful but insulting to any person when his or her conversation partner turns away from him or her and starts doing his things. A loved one always puts the opinion of his better half above all. Your husband is bored, he does not value your opinion, and he is looking for a fresh conversation with other ladies. He brags about his conversation skills either to stimulate you into prolific and educated conversation (that is how he thinks) or to elevate himself above you (you can analyze his conversations with ladies whom he encounters: if the dialogue is superficial, then it is the latter). He denies and rejects any problems because it may be just convenient for him to live with you, and he may even not love you anymore (check the article to see if it is true; but let us hope that it is not). You can try to make your marriage work again and focus on phrasing mostly complex and educated queries and statements to see if it works for him. Leave the space for his responses so that they are not monosyllabic but constructive and consequential.

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I've been with my husband for 35 years and married for 30 but I feel he is cheating on me?

I've been with my husband for 35 years, married for 30, recently he moved over his mom's for a break, said he wasn't sure if he loved me anymore then couple of Sunday's ago he was here, when I returned from my sister's. Thing was I saw him everyday while he was at his moms, I was at my lowest. I couldn't understand what I had done wrong, anyway he asked if he could come back, he hugged me and kissed me so I said yes, then last Saturday night I said I love you but he couldn't reply I said OMG, you don't love me, you come back for pity, felt sorry for me, he said he wants to try again, but I seem to be doing all the work, we have fab sex but there's something telling me he was about to see one or is. I have tried: I've been close to him, showing him that I love him, sit by him as we talk. I think it was caused by: I think it was doing our own things on a Saturday, we go out separate we didn't sit by each other, never showed him the love he was showing me

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About my husband behavior, is he in love with another woman?

My husband cheated on me so many times, on 2012 he met this girl for 2 months, he hid this from me, one night he received a phone call and he didn't want to answer but when I saw that he tried to avoid the phone to answer, when I told him to answer, he picked up his phone and said wrong number. When I made him call back on the number shown, I confronted him after that I found out that the girl told me everything going on, he lied and denied and he is not over with his affair with her. I have to deal so much with him. He comes home tired, complaining about everything, never confessed about his lies. Everything he used to do when she was around been stopped, he doesn't talk, only important, takes me for a late night drive, doesn't do anything with me, never have time, always find some excuse. Mu gut tells me something he is hiding, if I try to ask him what is wrong, he gets mad and say I am crazy

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I need to know signs to know my real husband?

Three men are coming for my hand in marriage at the same time and all of them are serious. how will I know the real man?

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Do you think my husband doesn't love me anymore? How do I know if he had another girl?

He doesn't care about me, he cares only on me when his friend have a jamming with him, he didn't send me a message but I always do.. He never thinks about me, we are in a long distance relationship now and he was my first boyfriend, he was at the age of 50s , I don't know what is in his mind,..I'm only a 20 years old girl

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What should I do, my husband deleted the message he and his baby mama test him that she still love him?

His Ex that they have kid together sends him her pics and texts that she still love him. He responded that she is the 1st woman whoever loved him and deleted the messages but I had already read them

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Should I leave my husband for his ex wife?

Hi, my husband still sees his baby mama and sleeps there, he even looked a job near his ex's place. What should l do? Getting feed up with that, should l leave him for his ex. I have tried: Talking to him. I think it was caused by: Him working next to the ex's place

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Hi, my problem is my husband never spend time with me, he is always busy?

Why then just yesterday he was smelling perfume? When I asked him he said it was air conditioner and twisted his hand and left, what can be wrong? I have tried: Nothing I am just quiet and he said when I leave the house he will not look for me. I think it was caused by: The perfume when I tell him to wed me he refuses yet he wanted to wed his ex

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My sister husband was working aborod and now a women write her that he has an affer with herand he denyed?

How could she that her husband is telling the truth ?. I have tried: Noting , just heard it. I think it was caused by: I can't think of noting now

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I started the relationship with my partner whilst he was still married. Now, I feel as though he is having an affair whilst living with me. But I have no evidence and it's difficult to track down?

I am completely lost - he has gone so cold in the last year. it's true that my 20 years old son has not simplified anything as he is lazy and socially awkward. I know that Carl felt betrayed by me as I was defending my son against what seem overreacting on his side - especially as he's not very good at doing chores himself.. Many of the 33 signs are correct when it comes to Carl but does it really mean 100% that he's having an affair. Can it just be because he's depressed, stressed by his high pressure job and some debts we accumulated with the mortgage on our house? Does it really have to be a proof of cheating?

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Am I being too jealous about my husband just talking when I as m aware what can transpire?

I am my husband's 4 wife. We've been married for almost 19 months. At first I didn't notice him privately message other girls on Facebook, then I got upset when I wasn't included in the message about them meeting up to let the dogs play. I then found him messaging her calling her beautiful and asking if she was working. I was so mad I threw the phone. About 3 months later I see a message him asking her if she wants to play naught plumber. Hell broke loose. I made him block her. Then he talks to a woman out of state they chat while I was sitting on the couch with him, the next day from the screen shots she sent me was their conversation along with pics. One that concerned me was his conversation saying he would have motive! He tried to cut her off saying he was done because he was in love with me but she though different and sent me everything. I am on pins and needles every time he's on Facebook I'm nervous he will do it again. .

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I have a feeling that my husband is having an affair, we fought out of nothing, we hardly have intimate, even when I touch him he refuses, as if he has lost interest in our marriage, he often sleeps before I do and refuses to awake, then I do so. We don't talk as usual!

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If you found a strand of hair that is NOT yours in your own house. What is the sign?

I tried to confront my separated hubby with a strand of hair that is NOT belongs to me since I've got a chemo treatment last December so I don't have a strand of long hair but he kept denying and so Defensive and argues a lot then left the house without an explanation. (we don't live in the same house but he comes and goes from time to time for our son). He also announced that he won't comes for the Thanksgiving Dinner that he was supposed to be with our son that day). Even though I don't have any feeling for him anymore but I don't want him to bring an DNA from others into my home. But is it one of the signs that he's already have an affair with someone since last December when he doesn't comes around to help me to take care of our kid while I was on the treatment? He picks a fight a lot with little things while my health limited me to do the usual chores. Does a cheating partner feels guilty as charge while feeling Defensive about strand of long & dark hair that is NOT mine?

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