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How can you make your boyfriend jealous over Skype, etc.?

So basically someone's been talking to other girls and all of a sudden not showing interest in me and I know them through Skype and Kik and all that and I really need to make them jealous to get their attention back.

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To make your boyfriend jealous as you talk on Kik or Skype, you can talk to him about how great other guys are. It'll make him very jealous of the other guys who have caught your attention and will make him think about how his attention for other girls probably hurts you, too.

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However, a better option than making him jealous is to talk to him about your feelings. After all, you're in a relationship, and relationships are all about communication. If you tell him how much it hurts you that he pays attention to other girls, he'll apologize and stop.

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Hi! My boyfriend is threatening me with chats (he got on my phone when I wanted to break up with him). What should I do?

How can I break up with my boyfriend without his threatening me?


Find a male person who can pose as your new boyfriend. If you receive a threat over the phone, you will need either to give the phone to the person or ask the person to call the troublemaker up. If the troublemaker threatens with physical violence, then tell him that you are going to report him to the police. If you do not want to listen to him, block his calls (you can use this program for Android or just tap the number, scroll down, and select "Block this caller" on iOS phones). You can also give him some time, and he will cool down.

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He is not calling, he is not texting messages. Our relationship is for five years?

Our friendship is for five years, and we are still with in, but the problem is he is not calling, I call him 3 times within one day. Also he is not texting even when I tell him that I am sick, he treat it at that time. He does not call me again or ask. But I love him and he loves me very much

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You need to confront him about where this relationship is going or if he wishes to walk away. After 5 years, there should be a strong commitment or marriage plans. This is a long time to be dating and going nowhere in terms of a future life together unless you are both very young. Perhaps he has something in his life that is urgent and he does not have the time to speak with you but once again, this is something he should have told you. At this point you are are at a crossroads in the relationship and need to decide whether to make this relationship permanent or end it.

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My boyfriend gets upset over petty things?

My friend wanted to have a girls night at her friend's house, and my friend said we are going to spend the night, my boyfriend got angry and said why didn't he get asked. He keeps talking about it, if I have somewhere to go, he follows me. I have tried: I have tried talking to him calmly but he doesn't want to hear it. I think it was caused by: He just wants to have control

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He is insecure. Do you live with your boyfriend? If so, then you should have told him you were staying somewhere else overnight so that he did not worry about your safety. Beyond that, it is not his business what you tell him about your daily interactions. If he is following you, confront him. Tell him that his insecurity has you rethinking dating him. No one wants to be monitored 24/7 or blamed for something they did not do. Also, control like this can turn to violence when someone feels that they are losing control. End this behavior with him now or end the relationship.

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I don't understand why my boyfriend keeps on saying bad words to me accusing me for things I didn't do?

Please advise me on what to do with this kind of person? Is the love he felt for me still real or maybe he wanted to end up our relationship already

You should not be putting blame on yourself regarding his distrust of you. Especially if you know you did nothing wrong. If you really love him, ask him why he is so suspicious of you suddenly when you have done nothing wrong. It needs to be said though that sometimes people become accusatory when they are actually the ones cheating. Suddenly they assume because they are doing it, you must be doing it. This is to make themselves feel better about their actions. Flip the conversation with your boyfriend and ask him if his distrust in you is because you should be distrusting him.

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Why does my boyfriend always accuse me of sleeping with other guys and creating fake accounts on social networks just to spy on me, what may be the cause?

Why does my boyfriend always accuse me of sleeping with other guys and creating fake accounts on social networks just to spy on me, what may be the cause

He has low self esteem. Are you mentioning how much you love him enough? Is he insecure about other life issues such as finances or the future? Tell him that unless he can trust you, he should just walk away because you are not going to spend the rest of your life with someone that does not value your character. See what his response is then. He may back off a bit, but perhaps make a time limit for yourself on whether to stay or leave depending him his improvements of trust.

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If my boyfriend mentions ex partners all the time?

What does that mean to our relationship. He tells me he loves me and I am good enough

You are possibly a rebound. How soon after his last relationship did he begin dating you? When someone has not fully dealt with a break up, they will project it and mention it in a new relationship. Usually, they ending up leaving the rebound relationship once they feel strong enough to be on their own. Be careful of this. If it bothers you then you need to tell him to stop and only focus on your present relationship together.

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Your boyfriend finds that area of your body attractive. If it bothers you that he does this, then ask him to stop. You never have to let someone touch you where you do not want to be touched. If you are truly irritated by this behavior and your boyfriend can't stop, then he is not the right person to be in a relationship with.

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My boyfriend had stalked my WhatsApp?

Today I realized my WhatsApp was stalked and all chats accessed by my boyfriend. How do I deal with it? Should I ask him?. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: Doubt

First, hard reset your device and put a passcode on your phone. Second, look to see if your boyfriend broke the law by installing a spy app on your phone without your permission. Third, confront your boyfriend and request time apart because he violated your privacy with his insecurity and distrust.

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To deal with this, he needs to apologize to you for what he did. He then needs to assure you that he will not invade your privacy again. He did this because he distrusted you which means he does not value your personal moral character. You need to let him know that you will not tolerate this type of behavior. Then ask him to list why he felt the need to spy on you.

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I feel like I am being watched by my boyfriend and his friends and one of my co-workers at work that knows my boyfriend's friend?

So I see my boyfriend once in a while on his days off driving past my block and looking at me after the car accident he and I had together and I missed 12 days of work and after the car accident my first day of work he was parked on my block by the bus stop or close to it and when he saw me he looked down bashfully. What is going on? And I saw him get in a car at my work at the parking lot but he does not come to say hi to me or anything else. He won't even text me. He and I were in a car accident and he does not want to talk to me until after the court thing is done. I don't know if he is trying to protect me or watch me. He did say that for my medical bills he wanted to arrange something to make sure I'm safe but when he sees me why won't he talk to me or txt me. He hasn't talked to me for months. I have tried: I've tried text him and being more aware of how often he is around me. But he never responds. He says he's busy with work all the time and he does not want to get me involved in the whole court thing. I think it was caused by: What caused this problem is the car accident. He even asked me to lie and all of that stuff and if the truth would come out the protection and him and I would be done for good.

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