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How can I tell where I sit in his plans for a future together?
It is kind of a long story but here goes. We started seeing each other in August 2016, almost 6 months. We have actually known one another for 18 years as ex neighbors and occasional friends when we would run into one another here and there. We've both been married before and have children. My children love him and his son loves me. I have my own apt but I am never there. I spend 13 days out of 2 weeks at his home. He says random things like he loves having us there and little things about his career. Recently he has made comments about changing shifts to over nights and asking if I'm going to be there for sleeping. I am absolutely head over heels in love with him but I have no clue how he really feels about me. We communicate openly but the conversations never go to feelings. How can I tell where I sit in his plans for a future together? We are older than most of the responders. I'm 39 and he'll be 38 by Saturday. I have tried: I have tried to open lines of communication with my feelings to see if he would reciprocate. But he does. I think it was caused by: His past relationship may have been one cause. They had a very bad marriage.
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