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Spy On Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend or Children's Text Messages and Emails from a Cellphone

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How can I track my girlfriend's phone texts and listen to calls remotely?

She is cheating, and I want to find out with who. Can you help me? If you would like to remotely track text messages and listen to phone calls, you will need to install a powerful cellphone spying application. Once installed, a spy app will let you track all information on a particular phone from your desktop, Tablet, or another mobile device. In most cases, information will only be updated at set intervals, where you will receive updates through WiFi connections that will transmit information to your monitoring application. We have reviewed the My Spy (mSpy) cellphone app, and are currently reviewing several others as well. Please click here to visit the guide for that app, to see if it will suit your purposes.

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Is there an app or anything I can use to see other people's messages?

My boyfriend is doing drugs, and I'm worried about him. I know he lies to me about them. Is there any way I can get something so I can see his Text messages and iMessages without making it obvious? We both have iPhones. The iPhone operates differently than the Android operating system, but if you have access to his phone, you will be able to install a spy app that can track and monitor iPhone Text messages and iMessages without him knowing. You will need access to his phone for a little while, and you'll need to make sure you set things up so that you can remember your user name and login for the spy app you use. This way you will be able to secretly monitor him and track his iPhone messages. You can read more about this topic in our article discussing spy apps if you click here.

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Confused and poor. How will I be able to know if I can trust her? Are there any 100% free apps or sites?

It's not a boyfriend issue. It's a girlfriend issue, but the sites have all the same principles. I need to see who she is texting and calling all the time, but she never does it when I'm close enough to see or hear her. I got into her phone once and downloaded SMS tracker, which I regret now, because it is labeled in her notifications. So she uninstalled it, and now she rarely uses her phone. I need a way that I can access her device from a distance. We have listed several different methods of doing this earlier in this Q&A, including paid apps, which you can get a free trial for. That said, there are no 100% effective free apps you can use. Everything is paid, or on a limited trial. You could, however, get a message that lets you see her deleted apps, but at what point will you be satisfied that she isn;t cheating? This is important, because you need to draw a line somewhere for your own sanity - otherwise you will go crazy trying to constantly track her phone. So, before doing this, you should ask yourself some tough questions.

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  1. 1
    What are you going to do if she is cheating
    Will you keep tracking her phone messages, or will confronting her be enough that she will never cheat again?
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    What if she isn't cheating
    What will you do then? Will you always worry that she's cheating, and never get any peace or rest?
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    What will she do when she understands that you have been spying on her
    You mentioned that you already installed a tracking spy program, and she doesn't trust her phone or you now because of it. Why hasn't she left already if she thinks you know she's cheating?
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These are difficult questions, and many times you may find that the effort of 'knowing' isn't worth it. You can just cut ties with that person and move on, instead of spending all of your time in spy apps.

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I am being told my girlfriend is cheating on me and she denies it. I need a free app or website that will let me see her texts. What are some freeapps that I don't have to pay for to use?

I am being told my girlfriend is cheating on me and she denies it. I need a free app or website that will let me see her texts You will have to ask her permission to install those unless you want to get in trouble with law. There are some trial applications that will allow you to install a program for one or seven days to see how they work. If you are interested, you can find mSpy and FlexiSPY. Please note that when you get her permission, you will have to use her phone for some time as well (less than an hour) to install the software.

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Girlfriend cheating, explanation for knowing about him?

I know my girlfriend was cheating on me, well known but without any proof. I can't verify it due to absence of any proof so please help me, because it is question of my life. She says I am always right if you say I am wrong please prove it. Then what am I saying Once you have installed a spy app on her phone and have their messages or other data as proof, you can either show it to her or just say that you know his name. One way to get around admitting that there is a spy app installed is get his number from the spy app data and call him. This will send a loud message that you are aware of what is going on. When you speak to her it is not about how you found out the proof but instead about how she betrayed your relationship. If you think that you want to stay with her then it will be a long road ahead of learning how to trust again but it is possible.

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How can I know where she is when she doesn't answer my call or replies my messages, I have only her number?

How can I track where she is when she doesn't answer my calls when I only have an iPhone 5, her number, her BBM pins, her iCloud password?. I have tried: Haven't tried anything, I have no idea where to begin and what software should I have?. I think it was caused by: She unfriended me from her path because she was angry with me and that makes me worried If you log into her iCloud account from your phone you will need to go into settings and then put your number to sync with her account. Her account would also need to be set up to sync and you would only see the iMessages. Not call logs or SMS. If you want a complete picture, mSpy can be downloaded onto an iPhone with no jailbreaking. Because you have her iCloud credentials though FlexiSpy and other spy apps can be easily installed. She unfriended you and walked away. It is not necessarily a good idea to "stalk" her this way because if you get caught you could legally be in trouble. A charge and conviction of harassment or stalking can ruin and future job prospects that run a background check. In the US most companies now run background checks even for working in a fast food location so consider what you are doing and how it will impact your life.

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I want to hear what is said to Ex in prison if she says she still loves him and if she's just waiting for him to get out or if she does truly love me as I do completely love her

Have been with my girl for 3 years and before me she dated a guy for 2-4 months and he went to prison and she feels responsible over it even though his do's had nothing to do with her, any way, I love this woman with all my heart and have proven this to her in many ways ..to cut short he calls her every weekend from prison and she has visited him three times since we've been together and the second time she swore that I was the one she loved, well I would like to know what she is telling him or what he is telling her. I'm a good man and I just want to know if I'm just being used till he's out and my heart gets destroyed. I love the way she looks at me and holds me and everything about her and just need to find out if it's true or a game, if it's a game I will leave her yet heartbroken if she's just a friend for him to talk to being in prison is a lonely place, well then I can come nice talking to her about it and then maybe she can talk in front of me and not hide it. She's not super phone smart her phone is always a mess so what do I do I don't want to go longer not knowing the truth about her love for me or for him...signed hoping to not feel the pain Apps like FlexiSpy can record phone calls. It gets a little tricky though because you would be tapping into a call from a prison system phone line and you definitely do not want to get caught doing that. It sounds like she did not have the proper resolution when he went to prison. Most likely she does love you but still feels responsible for him even though he is in prison. She may think she has feelings for him but they are actually feelings of remorse and not love. That can get confusing when there was no clean break from the relationship. If she is just friends with him there should be no issue of you visiting him with her. In fact, you should insist that you meet him because this way you know what type of guy this really is that is so involved in her life. If she denies the meeting or he does not put you on the visitor list then you know something more is there and she needs to make a clean break with either you or him.

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I suspect my friend has some type of tracker on her phone, how can I prove it?

Every time I talk to my friend or get a text from her, I receive anonymous calls from fake numbers? When I answer, the call hangs up. If I call back the number, it shows not a valid number. How is this possible? It is not a spy app on her phone that would do this. You should actually look at your phone to make sure that something is not there. You also should contact your service provider and inquire why you are getting anonymous calls each time you speak with one specific person. There are ways to block anonymous calls in phone settings so see if your phone has that option. You also want to stop answering those phone calls. Know if Someone Is Spying on My Phone is a VisiHow article that you and your friend should read just to be on the safe side.

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Which is the best app or program for me?

I have been told that I can check my wife's phone calls (listen to them also), texts, photo sharing, I'm's etc by downloading an app on my phone and not her phone. What app or program can I use to do this? I'm pretty sure I'm not the only man in her life There are no reliable apps like that which you put on your phone and not the target phone. One claims to do this but reports that it does not work are all over the internet. A Spy App like FlexiSpy, mSpy or Spyera can record calls and give you the data but you need to install one of those on her phone. If you suspect infidelity then at least you will know once and for all if she really is cheating. Be ready to confront the cheating head on because once you see proof you will never be able to erase it from your mind. You need to have a conversation with your wife about what you are suspecting. Approach this conversation in a vulnerable state so that she will not feel that you are accusing her but instead worried about your insecurity in your marriage.

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I got a woman that I love, she is cheating on me. I would do anything for her, I never cheated on her. I work hard every day to make things work. She runs over me, it breaks my heart I can't do it any more. I'm dying from inside because I love her so much?

I got a woman that I love, she is cheating on me. I would do anything for her, I never cheated on her. I work hard every day to make things work. She runs over me, it breaks my heart I can't do it any more. I'm dying from inside because I love her so much I just wanted to say I really do understand your pain and I could type the exact same thing you just did but mine is longer and in wrong spot in comets at end anonymous #1 I think it's a kinda long one but I just want to say I feel your pain and I too hurt a lot because of my love for my girl and believe if I can know if she friends or more with the ex in prison it would help my decision wich by no means will make it less painless but I'm 47 and don't have a lot of time left for games and just need to know the same as you I'm nobody and don't work here I'm just another man in love and in pain and want answers and I personally think it should DE OK if it's justified and it's detrimental to a person's well being and not just to someone with trust issues or paranoid or jealous or controlling people but for us that are truly in love and just want the truth for once and either get on with the pain of watching the one you love go away in the distance or finally be able to let go and just love again without that lingering doubt of if it's mutual or just a lie ...I hope you are one of the good guys like me and you find your answers and they are all good and you can go on feeling the hardest thing to find ..true mutual love..wich we all deserve a chance to have and keep and not worry about someone silently seeking in and manipulating our loves mind....good luck! The above poster is right that this is such a painful time to suspect cheating and not be able to pinpoint why the other person would cheat. If you are doing everything you can and she is unwilling to stop then she is not the right person for you. Move Forward After Infidelity is a VisiHow article you should read to gain more coping skills.

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I have bought another cellspy, worked for a couple of days then no good. Its hard to get her phone she doesn't let it go?

She is always texting and staying late at work lately Wait for the opportunity to get FlexiSpy or mSpy on the phone. Cellspy should refund you if it stopped working but it may have stopped because she found the app and uninstalled it. For a few days you should have seen proof though. If nothing was there then relax.

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How can I receive the call of my friend's phone on my cellphone too?

A call on two mobiles.. like extension landline. I have tried: I didn't try.. I think it was caused by: This is not a problem, actually I want to know When you make a call, on most smartphones there is an option to add others to the conversation. If your friend calls you there should be an option displayed to add the friend to the call, hang up with the other person or put them on hold to answer your friend. If you want to forward your friend's calls to your phone then you do that in the phone settings. That means though that all the calls will be forwarded to your cell and your friend will not hear them on their cell.

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My girlfriend is talking to another fellow more than talking to me, I want to know what she is speaking about, without her knowledge, how?

I want to know with whom my lover is speaking without her knowledge Any of the spy apps mentioned on this page can be installed on your girlfriend's phone without her knowledge. Look on the spy app websites for the one that suits your needs the best. Choose an app with customer service and always read the installation instructions before final purchase so that there are no surprises like if you have to root their phone.

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I want to know if my lady is messing around?

I want to know if my lady is messing around There are several signs of cheating and here are some of them:

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Suspicion of cheating can eat away at our trust for our spouse until the trust is completely destroyed. If your partner has several of the signs from the list of articles, you can install a spy app for proof or if the signs are overwhelming it is time to have a discussion with her and either end the relationship or have her agree to stop and work on your relationship. It is completely up to you whether you are willing to stay and completely up to her on whether she will stop so you both have to be in agreement for the relationship to work.

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How can I find who my girlfriend is texting.I have her Google acct. password?

She has a Android phone and I have her Google name and password You can install one of the spy apps from Play Store remotely to her phone but she will see that the app is installed and that it is a spy app. If you want to monitor her without her knowledge you can install one of the spy apps mentioned on this page when you have 10 minutes with her phone while she is otherwise occupied.

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What type of app can I use for free to get inside my girlfriend's cell to look and see what kind of pics she has and videos?

I'm wondering if there is any free apps I can get to spy inside my girlfriend's cellphone and computer to see what she has in it that she might be lying to me telling me she don't have any. I have tried: Nothing I'm trying to find a free app to download so I'm able to get inside both her cellphone and desktop if she has one. I think it was caused by: I think she doesn't want me to know if she has any There are no free apps that can do this. On her PC there are free keylogger programs but for the cellphone you will need to install a reliable paid for app. FlexiSpy has a combo for the PC and phone as well as other spy apps can package deals for monitoring both. TruthSpy has a 48 hour free trial option but you will have to pay once the trial is up if you do not cancel in time. Assuming is very different from knowing absolutely that she does not want to show you her pictures. You will not know unless to ask to see her phone and look at her pics and videos. If she denies you the opportunity that still does not mean that she is cheating.

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She lives in another country, how can I install the app on her phone?

Or is there any other solution to track her moves, calls, and everything? Auto Forward can in installed remotely but you will only get a few features of the app until you root her phone. Tell if My Long-Distance Boyfriend or Girlfriend Is Cheating on Me is a VisiHow article that explains ways of telling if someone is cheating in a long distance relationship. One solution is to ask that she use an app like Find My Friends with you. Request that she leave it on all the time and you will also so that you can start to feel more connected. If she agrees then you know that there is nothing to worry about.

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Compatibility - Hi please advice if this is compatible to Nokia Lumia 1520 and what is the process for download?

Hi please advice if this is compatible to Nokia Lumia 1520 and what is the process for download.. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: N/A Spy apps mentioned on this page all have different installation methods. One of the main standard methods is to go into the target phone's settings and allow installation from unknown sources. You then go to a link in their browser and download the spy app. These apps are compatible for all smartphones.

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There is a lot of gossip going about, not accurate or nice, would like to find the source .. no bad intentions just clear the air as it is just getting worse?

These type of things a relationship, job, and good nature damaging

The best way to find out the source of the gossip is to put something false out there to your suspects and see if it comes back to you. Give each person a false tidbit that is slightly different. Let your significant other know that you are doing this and need them to tell you which person tells others about the false information. This will allow you to figure out who it is.

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The best way to overcome this is to hold your head up high. If the people you love do love you back then they will give you the option of clearing the false accusations. Jealousy is one of the main reasons for malicious gossip so try to figure out who may be jealous of you or your relationships. Confront these people peacefully. Let them know that you are hearing things that are not true and it is damaging the reputation of you when this is not warranted.

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How can I connect my mobile number to my wife's phone to have anything she do on the phone?

I wife is cheating on me, this is why am asking for help from you,she is picking different calls and text messages

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How can I know what she is doing?

She has blocked my number and I don't know where she is or what she is doing. I have tried: Calling. I think it was caused by: I don't know

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How I know where is she right now?

Can I track her phone ? please help me as soon as possible. I have tried: Long distance. I think it was caused by: Long distance

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