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Deal with your boyfriends female friend

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Hi Mr. Amir, I need some advice on dealing with my boyfriend's female friends?

Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He runs a track and is quite good at it, so he gets a lot of female attention especially from his female teammates. There is one in particular, who is also very good at track and has become friends with my boyfriend. His and her parents have also become friends. He doesn't bring her up in conversation often, but when she does come up, he'll start off saying she is a friend, but then he'll mention that she is pretty and how impressive she is. I think I feel left out because I play lacrosse, so I can't relate and understand a significant portion of who he is. He calls the girls he is captain over 'his girls' too which rubs me the wrong way at times. He even said once that they were watching him practice and it 'made him feel some type of way'. I have males in my life that are interested in me and somehow I find attractive, but specifically don't bring them up because I think about how I would feel if that happened to me. I just feel like I am treating him the way I want to be treated, but I don't get the same back. I don't say this to say that our whole relationship doesn't but I would like some tips on how to deal with this insecurity. I love him and I want to make this work. Any advice would be very much appreciated.

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Is it right for my boyfriend to get mad at me when I get jealous?

We had a long discussion of my insecurities of him meeting with his girl "friends" but is it right for him to sound angry and tell me "I had a few of my girl friends text me and I had to shy away from it". I'm just curious was that right of him to say?

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My boyfriend has a female friend (who is an ex girlfriend) staying at his house next March?

My boyfriend has openly told me that he has a female friend staying with him, he has known her for over 25 years. They were girlfriend boyfriend 25 years ago but now only friends. It is hard for me to accept that she is staying at his house, but she lives a long way away and is coming to see him for a week. I told him would I meet her when she is down as I think I would like to get to know her and we have a few things in common. He said no I won't get to meet her as it would hurt her feelings! He also said that he would not want me to meet his ex's. However, I have met his immediate ex. We have been going out for over a year now and he stays with me every weekend. I feel it's seedy as he won't let me meet her. It is friction between us now and I'm finding it hard to cope with it. He says that he doesn't discuss his relationships with her, nor hers if she has any. I find that weird as well if she's just a friend. Any advice much obliged. The female friend is an ex of long ago and she is staying at his house and he will not allow me to meet her to become friends with her. I have tried: I have tried to talk to him about it, but he has a sharp quick temper and won't pursue communication about it. I think it was caused by: She is a friend and he values his friends. We have an open but non committal relationship i.e. we don't see other people but we are not going to get engaged.

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