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Help with a letter, I need her back in my life?
I have been with her for 12 years, 3 years ago I told her I would not go to the bars after work well I started to go again 2 weeks ago, she said she can't deal with it again and is moving out. I told her she is the love of my life and I would quit drinking for good. Plus I need a good full time job. Since then I have not been drinking to show her she mean more to me than drinking. I love her with all my heart and I want her back in my life forever. I have tried: I stopped drinking for good and looking for a full time job. I think it was caused by: Work was slow, I started to drink because I did not know how to tell her about work. But I really don't know how to answer that
Not to get too AA on you, but if you need to provide an excuse for why you are drinking that is not good. You have been with her for 12 years so reading in between the lines gives an impression that 3 years ago something happened to make her say no more drinking and for you to agree. For her to say she is leaving now is further proof that you consuming alcohol has a major impact. As for AA, please consider going to meetings to not only show her you are serious about your sobriety but also to get some emotional help and support from the meetings. You can locate a local AA meeting here. Something to note is that AA is not just for the alcoholic who can't get out of bed in the morning unless they have a pint of alcohol, it is for anyone who has let alcohol impact their life to the point of some loss whether it be physical, financial or emotional.
While commendable that you would like to write her a letter, it needs to come from your heart. Some things to mention are all of the good times that you have had. List a few and make references to what they meant to you. Then list 50 ways she completes your life. End the letter with an example of a difficult time in your relationship and how you both managed to work as a team for resolution. Take the money you would have spent on alcohol and put it in an envelope marked Future. Ask her to hold the envelope for you so that you can make deposits on a regular basis. Let her know that you would like to determine with her what the money should be spent on but whatever it is, that you would like her to be the benefactor.
How to to explai her that I am really felling guilt so I want write a apologize letter?
I want to tell her sorry because I was always going behind her on the road just to talk with her but she was not talking with me so I feeling guilty so I want to write a apologize letter to her so please help me
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