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Get a Busy Boyfriend's Attention

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He is not my boyfriend but a friend...I want to put some lines in my status which must imply for him for neglecting me by telling busy?

He is my friend, close best friend, he used to talk everything with me..one day we spoke, we shared everything about us but suddenly he stopped talking to me by telling busy no time and all. I really miss him a lot.. I asked whether I had hurt him but he said no...so I wanted to tell him indirectly about this now...last try.... I have tried: I asked many times to talk to him. I think it was caused by: He indirectly approached me but I said I don't believe in love and all, and he said he will miss me a lot, for that I said I was knowing about this so sometimes I thought of avoiding you after that he started avoiding me but I never avoided him

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A suggestion for Facebook status for a friend who suddenly seems to be avoiding you might be: A great friend should never be too busy for a heart-to-heart with his best friend." Another suggestion would be: "I miss my best friend and no matter what happens in life, I will always make time to spend with him", thus implying that you would do for him what he is not doing for you. However, what is of more concern is that it seems that there was something you said in that conversation that made him decide not have any more contact with you and reflecting on that might go a long ways in helping you say just the right thing so he will connect with you again.

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Why is he so busy? This is becoming so frustrating?

He is always busy with work so when he gets off work he prefers to spend time with his friends instead, as he has known them for longer/ they always seem to be inviting him to things! What do you advise me to do? I don't want to seem too pushy / forcing him to cancel seeing his lifelong friends, but at the same time he never introduces me to them and rarely speaks into any details about them. I feel like I am not a part of his life in a way I would like to. I understand this is only early days but he will never get to know me if he only spends time with me once a week or even once in every two weeks! Please help!

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The bottom line is that when somebody is in love with you or thinks you are the one, they will drop everything they are doing to spend time with you. He is making you a low priority on his list of things to do. He knows from your texts that you will wait on the back burner for him, until he is ready to schedule a date at his convenience. The next time he suggests going out together, make him wait for the answer. Make him wait at least six hours after texting him: "Let me check my schedule and see what I am doing." or just simply "I will decide later." That lends the impression that you have a better option than him, and this might have him stop taking you for granted.

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My boyfriend ends up hurting me?

My boyfriend ends up hurting me every time.. He knows I'm sensitive by nature yet he expects me to start fresh after every fight.

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First of all, exclude the possibility of your boyfriend hating you (the article applies to both husbands and boyfriends). If this is not the case, then find out whether he is bored, being indifferent to you, does not value you, or just does not understand how you feel. Find out the reasons that he initiates the quarrels and write them down. Analyze the paper after several episodes and find out ways how to eradicate that. See if the reasons reoccur even with your eliminating the causes. If he expects you to start fresh in the morning, then he may just have emotional outbursts that have to be kept in check by changing the situations that cause the stress (for example, his work is very stressful; and he is being bullied at work: as a result, his nervous system fails at home). If there is no apparent reason, then get a relationship advice as soon as possible to keep your relationship going and not burn out emotionally. It is important that relationship is built on understanding, trust, and love.

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I can't understand my boyfriend true feelings what dose he wants from me?

Me and my boyfriend were childhood friends then at the age of 16 /17 we got separated his family moved . Now after 14 years he came looking for me , in this time he got married and have 3 kids . I am still single . when we got together he told me he has always loved him I was his love of life . After sometime now even I fell in love with him . For a year he was so in love with me gave me time made long phone calls texted me a lot . he told me he want to marry me looking for the right time . but now after a year and a half he is a changed man he never have time to call or text, never make any plans and he even said that he loves me a lot he can't leave me but he will not marry me . when I ask why is he with me where dose I stand in his life he says I behave like a child . when ever I say I am missing you come and meet me he never comes to meet me .Thing always happen his way . if he dost not want something he will not do it no matter how much I ask for it .please tell me what am I to him , what should I do . I love him a lot even he says he loves me and respect me a lot . HELP. I have tried: I have tried talking to him in every way but all the time he calls me drama queen , immature or child like .. I think it was caused by: I have no idea its like he is not the same guy anymore . he says he is not changed this is how he is .

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What is the right thing to do when my boyfriend gets mad at me because I bother him when he is busy?

Because every time I text him, he gets mad

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My boyfriend do not talk to me properly?

He is at home and busy in different tasks, he does not reply my texts, I find so many changes in him, he always wants to say leave me, but when I become rude to him, he becomes more rude

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How do I get attention and time from my busy boyfriend?

My boyfriend is a lecturer at the local university, he is studying for his second Master's degree. He has a passion for business as well, he has a farm which also keeps him busy. He never has time to spare, works with preparations of classes. His studies on the other hand and always uses weekends for the farm.

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My boyfriend is a busy person we meet once a week and when we meet he just want sex?

I have a man who wants to marry me and he is a busy person, but when we meet I want only sex. I have tried: I have tried to have time to go to the movie, he does not want that, he want just to be in the house and cooking with him and doing sex after.. I think it was caused by: I do not know really

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Emotionally unavailable workaholic boyfriend?

I have been with my boyfriend for 6-months. When we first met his work was very slow and we had plenty of time together. He did warn me that his work would get crazy, but he wanted to be in a relationship with me. We are both single parents raising teenagers. We live about 50-miles from each other. Surprisingly, we have been able to blend our families without any issues. A few months ago his work moved him to the night shift and he works 12 hours days. I know he loves me, but he will rarely say it. We talk everyday and text, but I will go for weeks at a time without seeing him. We both agreed we are committed to making this work. But how can a relationship grow if we rarely spend time together? We have had a few conversations that we need to make it a priority to see each other at least once a week but it never works out with his schedule. I try not to add more stress to the situation by not saying anything - but I'm starting to feel distant when we have been so close before, I feel like he's not willing or able to make me or our relationship a priority and fearful this will tear us apart. Please - I need some advise on how we can make this work.. I have tried: We've talked about scheduling time together each week. But he works 10pm - 10am most day and I work 8-5. He also works most weekends. There seriously is no time!. I think it was caused by: HIS WORK

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He is always busy and replies too pale I dnt want to loose him,what should I do?

He is living in another city. I need to fight with him to talk on calls.We always end up fighting at end of day.His temper is always high,so I can't argue else he will broke up. He says he loves me. Its been 3 years we are together and 2 years we are in long-distance relationship now. He never tells or inform me about his plans n dreams but shares all these with his friends(female mostly). I don't want to loose him. Suggest me something.. I have tried: I keep on asking him about his schedule his interests.He gets irritate.He says I doubt him.I'm the only person who takes initiative and tries to talk about problems.. I think it was caused by: His ignorance(intentionally or non-intentionally that I really don't know),tries to ignore fights,behaving as if he is single,narcizam,over smartness,etc.

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