Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back with a Text After Cheating vs To Get Her Back from Another Man vs She Dumped You ... and 7 more

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She told you goodbye, but for you, it isn't over: you're still sure she's the girl for you, and you want to get her back. But how do you do it? Well, first, you could warm her up to the idea of taking you back with a few carefully crafted text messages. We've put together a list of text messages to send to your girl to let her know that you want another chance with her.

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Method 1: After Cheating

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Given that over half of men admit that they've cheated on a significant other, you're not alone. Cheating is a hard thing to overcome because when trust is once lost, is difficult to get back. Even though it's going to take more than a few sweet words for her to forgive you, here are a few text ideas:

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    I know I broke your trust, and there are no words to express how sorry I am about that
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    I know I have no right to ask this, but is there any way that you'll give me another chance?
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    I have no right to even exist in the same world as you after I stepped out on you and broke your heart
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    I know you're hurting right now, but I hope that perhaps one day, you'll be able to forgive me.
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    I'm the biggest jerk in the world for cheating on you
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    Say you'll give me another chance and I'll tell you how I will make sure it never happens again.
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    I was untrue to you, and that's pretty unforgivable, yet I'm still hanging on to the hope that you'll take me back
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    While you might not believe me, I still love you, and I am prepared to give you anything you ask if you'll just give me a chance.
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    I am a horrible person for cheating on you, and there is no excuse I can give that would ever make it okay
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    The only thing I can say is that I am so sorry for hurting you, that I love you, and if you ever see fit to taking me back, I will work every day to prove that you can trust me again.
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Method 2: To Get Her Back from Another Man

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The love of your life is no longer with you. She's with another guy, and you know he's not the right man for her. Here are some texts to let her know you still want her, even though she's with this other dude.

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    Neither of us deserves a woman like you
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    The difference between him and me is that I'll keep trying every day to be worthy of you and he won't.
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    I know you're with him now, but I can't help thinking about you and the great times we had together
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    I just wanted you to know that you're on my mind.
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    Hey, sweetheart
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    I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you.
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    Does he hold you like I did
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    Kiss you like I did? Does he listen to you like I did? Ask yourself these questions, please, and if the answer is no, then he's not the right man for you. I am.
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    Every day I wake up and think about you, and it makes me smile
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    Then I remember that we're not together and worse, that you're with another guy and my heart breaks all over again. This is driving me crazy.
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Method 3: After She Dumped You

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She dumped you like yesterday's garbage. Can you get her back? Who knows, but here are some texts you can send her:

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    Sweetheart, I know you said we were through, but I can't help thinking we can still work this out
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    Please say you'll give me another chance.
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    After you ended things, I sat for a long time thinking about every mistake I made with you, every wrong word and every hurt I put you through
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    I know I don't deserve it, but I'd like another chance to show you how much I love you.
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    I hope it's not too late to try and make things right with you, Honey
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    I'll do anything if you give me another chance.
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    I was a jerk to you, I know that now, and I hope that you'll allow me to make it up to you.
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    I'm just sitting here thinking about you
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    About us. Can we go somewhere and talk? There are still things to say.
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Method 4: After You Hurt Her

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You were a bonehead: admit it. That's rule number one; now tell the girl how sorry you are and don't do it again! Here are some text ideas to get you started:

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    I am so sorry I broke my promise
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    I'm an idiot, and I know it hurt you. From now on, I will only promise to do things for you when I know I can do them.
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    "Honey, I'm so sorry I forgot about your [insert forgotten event]
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    If I could, I would turn back the clock so that I could celebrate your special day properly. But I can't. I hope that you can forgive me."
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    "I know you're mad at me right now because I was an idiot and I hurt you badly
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    I love you so much and would never cause you pain on purpose. Will you let me prove it to you?
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    I know that you feel hurt and angry right now, and it's fine if you don't want to talk to me, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm still here for you anytime you're ready, if ever.
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    I must be the world's most foolish man for hurting you, the prettiest, smartest, and only girl for me
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    Could you find it in your heart to forgive me?
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Method 5: When She Won't Talk to You

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The silent treatment is never fun, and when it means you're on the outs with your girl, then it's pretty unbearable. Coax her into talking to you again with a few nicely worded text messages:

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    I know you don't want to talk to me right now, and that's okay
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    But just know one thing: you are the most beautiful girl in the world, and I am so lucky to have you in my life. I hope that you'll forgive me so that I can spend the rest of my life showing you how much I love you.
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    You have every right never to want to speak to me again after the things I said and did
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    I am so sorry! Just know that I love you, honey, and I'll be right here waiting for when you're ready to talk to me again.
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    You're still upset with me, I know, and I deserve every bit of your anger
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    But, even though you can't stand the idea of even speaking to me right now, I still love you and always will, no matter what.
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    Your silence pierces my heart like the blade of a knife, and though I deserve that and more, I still yearn to hear your voice again
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    Please forgive me
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    I am sorry I upset you so
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    We can work this out if you'll only talk to me.
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Method 6: After Being Needy

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Whether you put all your insecurities on display for her or you just acted like a jealous jerk, these text ideas will help you smooth things over with her:

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    I am so sorry I was an idiot and took your words the wrong way last night
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    I lashed out at you, and you didn't deserve it.
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    Hey, it's just me, the big jerk from last night
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    I don't know if you'll ever talk to me again after I was so stupid and totally misread you when you said you didn't have time to go out. Being the jerk that I am, I made a complete fool of myself. I hope you can forgive me.
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    I was an idiot for allowing my insecurities to get to me the other day
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    Will you forgive me?
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    Roses are red; violets are blue, I'm the jerk who's in love with you
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    Please forgive my neediness.
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    Presenting Boyfriend 2.0, now with 110 percent less insecurity and 80 percent less wonkiness
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Method 7: When She Wants Space

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Pro tip: if she says she wants space, she's telling you that she wants some time to herself, so don't blow up her phone, okay? Just send her a text or two a day, just to let her know you're thinking of her. Do not send any more than that.

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    I woke up and my first thoughts were of you
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    I hope you have a great day.
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    I hope you had a great time with your friends
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    Just thinking of you.
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    Thinking of you and missing you
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    Hey, sweetheart
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    How was your weekend? Mine was pretty good.
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    I'm heading to bed, and I thought I'd touch base
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    I'll be dreaming of you.
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Method 8: When She Hates You

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She told you she hates you. Is there anything you can do to make her like you again? Well, you can't make her do anything, but you can send a few romantic texts her way and see if they thaw her heart.

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    I know you can't stand me right now, and I honestly can't blame you
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    I behaved abominably and deserve your everlasting hatred. But, the thing is, sweetheart, I can't get you out of my mind. When you're ready, I hope that you'll give me another chance.
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    When you told me that you hated me, it shook me to the core, and I had to do some hard thinking about where I went wrong with you
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    I realize now how much I hurt you. Regardless if you ever forgive me or not, I want you to know that I love you and will love you forever.
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    There is no doubt that I was an utter fool to treat you as I did
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    There is also no doubt about this fact: I love you now and forever, and even if you never speak to me again, that will still be true.
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    My life is colorless without you in it
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    Please add some color back into my world by coming back to me.
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    Hate is a strong word
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    it's actually the flip side of love. I'd like the chance to turn your hate back into the love we used to have. Can we chat?
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Method 9: After a Lie

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Foolish boy! Don't you know that you can't lie to a woman without her finding out, somehow and some way? There is some hope for you yet, whelp, but you must listen closely: send her these texts and lie no more!

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    I'm a liar and a fool, and I have no excuse for not telling you the truth
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    But if you can believe anything I say, believe that I love you and want to try again, if you'll have me.
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    There's no other way to put this
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    I'm an awful person who lied to the one person he should always be honest with. Even so, I hope that it's not too late to make things right with you because, without you, I don't know how to live.
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    Lying to you is the biggest mistake I've ever made
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    Please give me another chance to show you how sorry I am and prove that you can still trust me.
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    I'm truly a blackguard for lying to you
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    Please forgive my errant ways. (This one will probably provoke a response if only to ask you what a blackguard is.)
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    I don't know why I didn't tell you the truth
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    I guess I was afraid of your reaction. But, it doesn't matter: a lie is a lie. Please forgive me.
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Method 10: After Months Apart

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You've been apart from your girl for a while now, but your feelings for her remain as strong as ever. Here are some text ideas for you to let her know how you feel:

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    Even though we haven't seen or talked to each other for months, I still think about you every day
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    You're the first thought I think when I wake in the mornings and the song that sings me to sleep every night, even after all this time. Can we get together for coffee soon? I'd really love to see you again.
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    It's been months since we parted, but still, I get you out of my head
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    I can't get you out of my heart. I still love you, sweetheart. Can I come by your place tonight? Just to talk?
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    Neither space nor time has weakened my love for you
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    I still think about you every day, and I still miss you.
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    Even though we haven't seen each other in forever, I haven't forgotten you, nor the love we used to share
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    I still love you, as a matter of fact. I hope we can get together to talk soon. Please say you will?
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    Time has passed, but I find that I can't move on; not when my love for you is still as strong as it was when we were together.
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