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How can I find out if my boyfriend is cheating for free?

I would like to spy on his text messages online for free.


There are a number of spy applications that will allow you to spy on your boyfriend's text messages either free online or for your laptop. There are some that require you to install an application directly onto his phone, but there are others that will allow you to remotely-install the application to his phone if you don't have access to it. The great VisiHow article below lists some of the most popular and easiest-to-use physical-install spy applications, but if none of these work for you, you can try this application, as well:

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  • [1] (free 48-hour trial)

It should be noted that these remote-install spy applications are not as reliable as their physically-installed counterparts. In addition, they may be illegal in your area. Before you use any of the applications listed above or below, make sure that you can't be charged for illegal phone monitoring.

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Can this work even in Tanzania?

I want to spy on someone's text without them knowing


Spy apps work from most geographic locations.

I want to check my girlfriend Facebook messages?

I want to check my girlfriend Facebook messages without her knowing


Most spy apps now track Facebook messenger. Look for apps that record keylogging like [2] which offers a free trial.

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Can you check on a cheating spouse?

How to check on a cheating spouse ?

Here are few ways you can catch a cheating spouse:

  • Take notes on his routine and look for patterns. Example they're suddenly working late every Thursday night.
  • Ask a friend to follow him after work or when he is running errands to see if he is meeting anyone.
  • Check his phone while he is not looking. If the phone is normally locked, wait for a minute that he puts the phone down before he locks it.
  • Check your bank and credit card activity. Is there more cash being withdrawn from your account?
  • Install a spy app on his mobile phone.
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Gut feeling moody argue for no reason caring for his appearance and getting muscles he never had, and a big stomach, now he don't real buff chest?

His appearance has changed, he doesn't call me, yet his phone is always busy or it goes to voice mail

He is focusing on himself more than ever before. There may be someone else involved, however it could just be that he is self-improving just for himself. Be aware that often when people have big physical changes, they feel like they can suddenly spread their wings and fly.

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Can I find out who he is messaging on Facebook?

I just want to know who he is talking to while ignoring me

This question was answered in this VisiHow article already.

I Want to see who he's been texting with?

I Want to know if he's cheating and with whom

Please refer to the section in this VisiHow article on spy apps for monitoring text messages.

I need to know if he is answering his texts and phone calls?

I've been calling and texting my boyfriend for 3 days now and need to know if he is actually getting them and if he is talking to someone else

He is receiving them unless his phone has been off and you get voicemail each time immediately when you call. If you think he is talking to someone else you can try to install a remote spy app, although he will have to download a link or text message pic on his phone for the apps to work, so if he is ignoring you, the link may be ignored as well. Best option is to speak to him in person. If he is ignoring you all of a sudden he better have a really good reason or else you should end the relationship.

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I want to see if my boyfriend is cheating on me for free, without having to give any credit card information even for a free trial?

I've been in a relationship with my man for three years now, and he takes a while to reply while he also has a dating site account. But he denies cheating

No one should have a dating site when they are in a relationship. Unless that account is super old and he forgot about it he should not have it. You can use [3] for a free trial with no credit card initially required. Although I would say just seeing the dating profile is proof enough that something is happening, and though it may not be physical yet, the intent is present.

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Moved in about 2 months which was May 1 to find out at June 26 that he is still talking & texting some ex?

Moved in May first to found out on June 26 that he has been talking to his ex

That is unfortunate, especially if he was initially hiding this person. Unless they have been friends since the end of a relationship or share a child together, there is no reason for contact. If he has resumed the relationship, it's probably time to worry.

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Just want to know if my man is or has cheated?

He hides his phone always and keeps it on silent, he is always accusing me of cheating, he fights on purpose so I stay away. I have tried: I have asked him and he accusing me again. I think it was caused by: He lives with his mum and I heard a girl was in his room in May this year

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Those that are guilty will often assume the other person in the relationship is guilty because if they can cheat, you can cheat. If you heard a girl in his room then something was going on - obviously. His distrust of you since then, is further proof that something will happen or has already happen outside the relationship.

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Its my wife, I caught her on her cellphone 3 times with this guy?

Just wanted to know his location, she says it is an Ex boyfriend who lives in Europe, but I think he lives in town. She won't tell me his name, I have his cell number but he shut it off

Well if the phone number is a local number, then he is near you. Using a cellphone in another country comes with hefty fees so most people do not make several calls from their cellphone while on vacation unless it is of great importance or an emergency that can not wait until they get home. The bigger issue is that your wife felt the need to speak with her ex three separate times, and not where he is located. Emotional affairs are far more damaging to a marriage. Start by asking here why she felt the need to speak with her ex in the first place.

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Asked my boyfriend if anything happened last night and I feel like he is lying to me. His reply was about what when and who?

I just get a sense that he is not honest about the things he says and does.

Intuition is often right. There needs to be trust for a relationship to work, and you have several misgivings.

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Is there anyway to find out without joining these social media sites?

I know my husband has been having some pretty strange text messages at odd hours and I have seen that he is on several different social media sites. I believe he is cheating but he has his phone and computer on lock down. He hasn't touched me in months. I feel in my soul something is wrong but I do not want to confront him about this. Would just like to know so I can move on, if that is the way it is. We have been married for 1 year and I would like to have peace of mind over this. If he is cheating, I would rather let him go than to live this way.

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Instead of snooping, talk to him and ask him outright if he is looking elsewhere for love. He may just be thinking he is innocently flirting online but he is definitely starting to alienate his affections in your marriage. Snooping can often be far more painful as you see what has been said and done first hand. Also, some men, when confronted, will tell you the truth, while many others will turn it back on you, trying to make you feel guilty for even suspecting. Sadly, this tactic often works. Watch his eyes when you ask him.

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Can I track my spouse's website and cellphone remotely?

I need to get and track cell and tablet messages and websites from spouse. Is that possible to do remotely?

Please refer to the VisiHow question and answer above on tracking a cellphone remotely.

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I found a text a while back, The woman thanked him for getting her off, he admitted it & I thought things were good until I was online today & he got message replying to what evidently were deleted messages by him

We live in Iberia, Missouri. Both women play Kings of Camelot with him. I have tried: Asking him? Searching but he deletes & hides things very well. I think it was caused by: I really don't know?

Some avid gamers can let the online game fantasy blur into their regular life. He did admit to you what happened however the suggestion would be to ask him to either block the women from contacting him within the game or stop playing the game completely. He is deleting and hiding postings before you can see them, so something is in fact going on that, he is afraid of you seeing.

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I need help please. I think my wife may be unfaithful?

I think I am a victim here and I am in a big trouble, can you help?. I have tried: Calling, texting, going over. I think it was caused by: New man. I suppose

Sounds like she has in fact moved on. She cheated on you and walked away so you need to work on releasing her as well. It is tough to overcome being left by a cheating spouse but you will be able to have trust with someone else who is worthy of you. Before you jump into any relationship take some time to do some self-reflection. What were the reasons that your wife could have possibly cheated? If you may have contributed to her cheating, consider what you could do to change. Make sure that you are in the best emotional shape.

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I live in the State of California, I do not know if it is legal to spy on my husband's cellphone without getting into trouble and I do not want to pay for a service just to see if he is cheating?

Can you help me find out if he is cheating and with whom? I have tried: I tried checking his cellphone but he put a thumb print access on it. I think it was caused by: He says it's because of my older children and me helping them all the time. My three grandchildren live with us, ages 13, 7, and 5 which he agreed to, now he is saying it's too much, but his 74 year old father also lives with us which he has no problem with

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California requires two-party consent, which means you would need his consent for a spy app. If he finds it, you could be prosecuted. Such a restricted access to his phone could be so that the children do not use his phone, however you should ask him to unlock the phone in front of you and allow you to check it if he has nothing to hide.

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He said he loves me and won't leave me?

But he uses an app called 'ARE YOU INTERESTED' where there are many girls and he never told me. I have tried: I tried to ask him. I think it was caused by: I don't know

He may just be looking for outside praise from girls online but this is still a dangerous behavior in a relationship.

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I need to know if she is hitting up other dudes?

She smells weird down stairs all of the sudden and she is scared to show me her phone. I have tried: I've asked her. I think it was caused by: I don't know maybe because she has issues

She may just have a non-STD infection and searched for what could cause it using her phone and does not want you to see. If she is speaking to other guys there would be other signs like her pulling away from you and blocks of her time would be left unexplained for instance.

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What do I need to do to get some information?

He is always on dating site and on Face Book just trying to find what going on. I have tried: Looking in his phone but he got a new phone. I think it was caused by: He is just a hoe

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What do I do and where do I begin?

Don't know where to begin... We been together I have kids with him I just notice he started wanting to work out more. His phone goes off and I never know who it is it's always emails. His job he's all over the city. All I can do is track and see where he is. He's keeping up on his looks. Cologne now there was one particular cologne I thought he hates guess it was his favorite and he was looking for it. I gave it away thinking he hated it. He's a good liar. Probably the best I have come across. So it's had to tell what he is really up too. I calls when he is going to eat lunch or done eating lunch never in between. When I call him at work he keeps it brief with me. Sometimes I don't hear from him. When I do it's a text saying I love you. Or he comes home out of the blue he's affectionate where he's hugging and telling me he loves me. He hardly does.. I have tried: So far I just look at phone numbers and track his where abouts here and there. I called a few numbers. One time it was a female he says he it's a cousin.. I think it was caused by: I don't know I just think I feel in love with a liar and a cheater

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