Enthusiastically Communicate with People
Edited by Seighart, Charmed, Anonymous
Enthusiasm is deliberately manufactured until such time it becomes an integral part of your personality output. It is a stepped up performance designed not only to give you a lift but to compellingly step up the enthusiasm of everyone else. Here are ways to Enthusiastically Approach People.
- 1Color everything you do or say - Consciously ignite your smile, your hello, your eyes and your words with the drama of technicolor approach.Be vivacious. Everything you do or say should be given a beauty bath. Choose your words. Create colorful descriptive imagery. To all words add action. Accompany a warm smile with an even warmer handclasp. Make conversation sparkle even when you are not feeling at your best. Paint everything you do or say with the sunshine of friendliness and understanding and watch how others desire to bask in the warmth of your glow.Advertisement
- 2Know what you're saying or doing - Before you make comments on anything have all the facts.Research everything. Knowledge makes you know what you know and experience none of the fears that come with ignorance. The more you know about any particular subject the more the loquacious you can be. The more you can support your ideas the more fascinating becomes your opinion. To develop the depth of your enthusiasm know what you are saying and doing at all times.Advertisement
- 3Spread praise lavishly - Indicate your appreciation of the performance with praise.Be warm, kind and sincere. Compliment people for that which they do. Spread compliments in all directions. Wherever you are, whatever you are doing, make someone feel you enthusiasm through praise. Full barren live with a little friendliness. People hunger for praise so give it freely. Remember that praise is also power.
- 4Don't force opinions and don't be opinionated - One of the positive factors in enthusiastic people is that they do not inflict their opinion on anyone.They are neither possessive nor bigoted. They are not prejudiced. They remain on a happy and healthy plane which holds bright allure. They stimulate listeners with positive approach and at no time inflict personal beliefs. To influence people favorably stay away from public and private opinions until you are forced into a frank report.
- 5Look for good things in and about people - Refuse to listen to negative talk form yourself or others.Walk away from gossip. Deliberately bypass malicious mischief with a turn of the conversion. Form no first impressions. Inadequate first impression drains enthusiasm with justification. Jump to no conclusions. Harbor no doubts. Doubts promote misunderstanding and anchor personality to everything negative. Look for the best in everyone.
- 6Sleep well, eat properly - Sleep and proper nutrition play role a role in the brighter personal approach to people.To insure your best personality performance keep physically fit. Enthusiasm has its beginnings in the foundation that supports it. Keep well, sleep well and you don't have to be artificial about enthusiasm. Be at your best in health, and enthusiasm and alertness will come naturally.
- 7Find interests in common with others - Deftly and delicately probe those around you to determine the area of their interests.For another person to find something in common with you is for them to find you an interesting person. Between you rapport in a common bond called enthusiasm.
- 8Carry the best of everything new - Reserve the old for memories.Toss the tawdry aside. Delete gossip and everything nasty from your life. Do not dispense worry, anger or hate. Wash out everything negative form your life. Do carry good news, good views and more colorful hues of a bright personality. Transmit happiness to everyone.
- 9Be Amusing - The enthusiastic person has a sense of humor.It bubbles from a lively fountain of friendliness. Be happy and make others happy within the aura of your influence. Give them the angel touch of personality appeal so they can carry something away from their association with you.
- 10Offer the bright star of encouragement - Nothing makes others see you an enthusiastic person better than your ability to encourage them.Listen to people and aid them in their problems. Let them complain to get the misery out of their souls and fill their aching voids with hope and courage and the feeling of success. Make them feel better because of your presence, your interest and your encouragement. By association with enthusiasm they find new vigor and a new design for living. Through your enthusiasm you bring them happiness.
- 11Make others feel important - In the necessity to satisfy a universal cravings the necessity to make others feel important.Everyone wants to feel that he has a place in the world, a place to be recognized, a place meeting specifications for stature and prestige and you can give this to them. Freely and lavishly you can give recognition. Through your enthusiasm you can show others they are important. Make other feel important and you become important to them as they walk over the bridge of enthusiasm that you have built.
- 12Render personalized attention - In the enthusiastic approach there is nothing personalized attention.This attention must be defined. It must be planned program of action. Talk and do in terms the other person understands. Give pleasure. Organize your attention to please a client, a wife and a patient or an army. Do what you would do specifically for them. Make them feel pleasure. Make them know you care.Advertisement
- If you have problems with any of these steps, ask a question for more help, or post in the comments section below.
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Recent edits by: Charmed, Seighart