Be a Sexier Man by Changing Your Behavior
Edited by Donna, Eng
There are plenty of subtle ways that a man can grab the attention of the opposite sex, without making much of an effort. Adjustments in your posture, attitude and Outlook on life can go a long way towards attracting the woman of your dreams. Here are some tips for adopting some simple traits and behaviors that can make you irresistible to women.
Note that any of these tips can be used to attract a woman to you while you are single or while you are on a date, but they can also be used as ways to keep the woman that you do have in your life, in love with you.
- 1When sitting alone, waiting to meet women, practice looking like a deep thinker by posing with your head slightly tilted upwards and your hand on your chin.This makes you look "deep" and also taller than you might actually be. The pose also invites questions from inquisitive women, who might ask you why your look so pensive or what you are thinking about.Advertisement
- 2When sitting alone, try reading a book rather than staring at your cell phone.Women find this sexy because it indicates intelligence, an open mind and a possible single status. Men who are constantly texting do not seem that available to other women, whereas reading a book can provoke questions from women.Advertisement
- 3Smile less, talk less and try to adopt a sullen, brooding look.Men look more attractive to women when they seem to be preoccupied with their inner secrets. This makes you seem sexy and mysterious, like a passionate and moody poet or musician. Brooding also gives women the idea that you are deeply troubled, and therefore in need of some female company and advice. Acting a bit withdrawn and even a bit upset compels women to start up a conversation with you to find out what is wrong with you.
- 11Women are attracted to tall men.Whenever possible stand, or sit on a higher chair so that you appear to tower over them. If there is a level in the room, or a small step, stand on it. This is especially important if you are shorter. When having a conversation, try to urge her to sit and then lean over as if the two of you are in conference. If you need to, wear shoes with slight lifts or a bit of a heel.
- 13Be mindful, stay off your cell phone and stay in the present.A man who constantly checks his cell phone is sending a message to the women watching that he is unapproachable. Constantly checking your cell phone can also mean that you are too busy to have a relationship, a player, or talking to an ex.
- 14If you like a woman, compliment her.Do so without making it too sexual. For instance, you can compliment her on her great shoes, beautiful hair or wit but stay away from being too personal. An example of getting a bit too personal would be making observations about her anatomy or the ways she smells.
- 15Be reciprocal in your conversation and know how to banter back and forth with her.Acknowledge what she is saying and follow the thread of what is being said. Reply to her and make your comments relevant. Do not sit there and be silent. Women do not like having to work too hard to get a response from a man who seems dead set on putting up a wall when it is time to have a conversation.
- 17Do not smoke cigarettes or anything else.Smoking used to be the accessory of choice for male sex symbols but nowadays; most women are repulsed by the smell of the smoke lingering in your hair and clothes. You also appear a bit less intelligent if you smoke because it is well known that it causes cancer, dental problems and other health issues, and it seems like you are making a less than wise choice. It also does not help that cigarette smoke makes your breath smell.]
- 23Use proper grammar when you are speaking to her.This makes you appear to be smart and well educated, which is more appealing to women
- 24Do not swear during your conversation.Peppering your speech with profanities does not make you seem hip or more authoritative, it makes you seem angry or immature. It is also gives her the impression that you do not respect her and that is why you are speaking so casually.
- 25Show her that you are kind to animals.Many women judge the character of a man of how he treats animals. When you encounter people's pets, be sure to greet them with enthusiasm. On a subliminal level, this makes the woman feel that you would be nice to any children that you would bear together, which is ultimately, very sexually attractive.
- 29You let her take pictures and selfies with you, and then post them on social media, without complaint.Being seen in a picture with a man, especially a new prospect or boyfriend means a lot to women, because it means that you truly are single and that you are more likely to put up the all-important relationship status later.
- 30Display a decisive, confident attitude at all times.If the two of you leave one place and plan to go somewhere else, do not waffle about where you should go. Women like it when a man takes control and just says "We're doing this now."
- 31Keep your place as clean as if your mom was going to pay you a visit any minute.Make sure that your place is spotless before you bring a woman home. Be ready for anything by always having clean sheets on your bed, clean counters and a clean bathroom. Women roll their eyes at grown men who are not able to care for themselves in the most basic way.
- 32Keep your place staged for seduction at all times.Always have a bottle of fine wine on hand, wine glasses and some quality cheese and premium crackers ready to be displayed on a platter. Make sure that your music player's work and that you have CDs with romantic music on hand. Make sure that your place also smells nice, by using a bit of room freshener. Have candles on hand that you can light to make the mood more romantic. This attention to detail will go a long way to making her feel like you are a suave and romantic individual.
- 33Avoid texting women to communicate and always make a call instead.Texting is not very romantic or respectful of her. It is more for couples that have been together a long time and need something picked up from the store.Advertisement
Tips and Tricks
- Do not be corny about introducing yourself and stay away from behaviors such as bending down on your knee to kiss her hand
- When striking up conversations with women that you do not know, it is best to stay off of the hot topics such as religion, politics and money
- Talking like a racist is very attractive to most women
- Do not gossip about others when you are making small talk with women, as it makes you seem week
- Belittling the waitress or leaving a small tip can also be a big turn off for women
- Never ever talk about your ex or any past sexual conquests, at that indicates a male who is disrespectful
- If you are speaking, and she is acting like she has lost interest in what you are saying, or is looking around, change the topic by asking her a question so that she feels in control of the conversation again
- Avoid flirting with other women while focusing on just one, or she will perceive you as a player
- Be upfront about the fact you have children, by showing her their pictures early on in your contact, as this will establish early on whether or not this is a deal-breaker for getting to know you better
- Make it known that you are a bit of a handyman around the house or with fixing cars or appliances, as the ability to fix things is very attractive for some women
- If a woman is at your home, avoid turning on the television, as that is too distracting to cultivate an air of romance
- If a woman turns down your advances or suggestions, never ever show resentment or anger as other women will be watching or hear about it
- When setting the stage for seduction, it is important that you do not go overboard by making your pad look like Hugh Hefner's mansion; avoid details like cheetah or zebra fabrics, mirrors on the ceiling and large suggestive prints
- This should go without saying, but avoid locker room talk and public displays of flatulence when you are with a woman
- If you are not interested in watching sports, be sure to mention this to her as many women translate that to mean that the man will have more romantic time to her, which is a desirable trait
- If you enjoy shopping, knitting or cooking, be sure to let her know because women really appreciate males who have learned how to enjoy some of the hobbies or skills that are traditionally associated with the feminine
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