Be an Independent Woman

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Every women has the potential to do anything she sets her mind to. Even if she is not in a relationship.



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    1 First realize that An independent woman is one that can totally stand on her own and provide for herself, and chooses a partner because she wants to, not because she has to!.
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    Do you want to be like that?
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    2 second know that you can set your mind to anything and achieve it
    whether its getting a job to support you and your kids as a single mom to just being happy and content in being single or even in all just knowing you can do anything YOU want because YOU want to.
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    3 STOP saying and just do
    don't say oh I can do this tomorrow No you can do it to day.
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    4 don't have self pity don't say you are single because your to fat,skinny, or ugly because its NOT true there is someone out there for everyone and when you learn to be independent and stop looking for love it will find YOU
    EVEN if it does not you can still stand on your own to feet and Hi, who said single was a bad thing.
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    5 do what makes you happy and be a little selfish at times a girl needs to take time off once and a while then you can come back strong and ready to do anything.
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    6 Find you that girl that had fun that you aspire to be again
    BE happy and content with you life. life may not always come out the way you want but you can mold it into something better . That's the best part and if you have kids do something with them. if you have boys than don't be afraid to play ball with them show them you can be MOM AND DAD.
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    7&8 love life because it goes fast make then best of every moment you have that's what a independent women would do
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