And What to Write Inside a Card to Accept an Invitation (Rsvp Card)
Edited by Christine dela Cruz, Eng, Lynn, georgeson and 1 other
A good number of invitations, especially ones that come from friends, are often just responded to verbally, or even through a simple text message. On the other hand, there are also more formal occasions that require an equally formal response confirming your attendance, or your inability to attend, prior to the event. This is when RSVP cards come into play. These state the exact details about the event and require a response regarding your decision on whether or not you're planning to attend. It often also states the time frame given to you in which the host would like you to send your response. Since there are obviously certain guidelines to follow in terms of propriety, it would be good to know how to acknowledge RSVP cards the proper way.
- 1 A Closer Look at RSVP Cards
- 2 Benefits of the RSVP Card
- 3 Typical Contents of an RSVP Card
- 4 How to Respond to an RSVP Card to Accept An Invitation
- 5 Common Mistakes to Avoid When Receiving RSVP Cards
- 6 Questions and Answers
- 7 Comments
A Closer Look at RSVP Cards
RSVP cards are given to invited guests to request confirmation of attendance. It is an acronym for the French phrase, répondez s'il vous plaît, which literally means, "please respond". In other words, RSVP cards are meant to be responded to, not ignored. These are the different types of RSVP cards:
- 1This means that response is expected, whether or not you will be attending.General Response.Advertisement
- 2This means that response is expected only when you will not be able to attend. Not sending any response, in other words, indicates confirmation of attendance.Regrets only.Advertisement
- 3This means that response is expected only when you are confirming attendance. No response means the host will automatically assume you have decided not to attend.Confirmation only.
In some cases, save-the-date cards are sent out prior to RSVP cards. These are usually sent out months or weeks ahead of the event. Their purpose is to inform the invited guests that an event is occurring on a certain date and time, and further details will be sent later, along with the RSVP card.
Benefits of the RSVP Card
- 1It ensures that details about the event are clearly laid out to the invited guests, as compared to when it is just being verbally explained.Advertisement
- 2This particularly relates to reservations in terms of the size of venue, food and materials needed given the volume of the attendees, logistics required, and all other aspects of the event. In other words, RSVP cards avoid unpleasant surprises that lead to messed up plans.It gives the event organizers a clearer idea in terms of the actual turnout, so they can prepare accordingly.
- 3It helps to avoid last minute confusion and other logistical complications, such as getting lost, not dressing accordingly, getting stuck in traffic unexpectedly, and all other similar hassles that might arise along the way.
- 4It serves as a reminder for the guests of the event, and helps in proper scheduling and preparation.
Typical Contents of an RSVP Card
- 1This includes the date and exact time of the event. In most cases, it will even indicate how long the event is expected to last.Schedule and Timing.Advertisement
- 2This includes all pertinent information that guests may need to know prior to the event in order for them to prepare. Examples of these details would be party themes or conditions of the event, such as not bringing kids and pets, potluck, etc.Details.
- 3This indicates specific expectations from the guests in relation to the invitation.Requirements.
- 4This is of particular necessity, especially if it's a social event in which the dress code may not be easily predictable. In normal cases, they would write whether it's strictly formal, semi-formal, or smart casual. If there is a very specialized theme and corresponding outfits or costumes are required, that would be indicated here as well.Dress code.
- 5To assist guests, a map or a layout of the area is provided, together with the RSVP card.Venue map and layout.
- 6This includes details such as parking and traffic policies in the area.Other relevant logistics.
- 7This tells you how much time you are given to identify whether or not you can attend the event. This is usually phrased this way: "RSVP by ___ (specific date)."Time frame to respond or when is response expected.
- 8This indicates the different options available in terms of how to respond to the invitation. Typical modes are telephone, email, or resubmission of confirmation slip or stub, which can be torn off from the RSVP card. In more formal cases, an official response card has to be sent, usually through regular mail.Mode of response.
How to Respond to an RSVP Card to Accept An Invitation
- 1This is usually indicated inside the card, near the deadline to respond. If it's an extremely formal event, you may have to write a card to formally accept or decline the invitation. In any case, knowing exactly what type of an RSVP card was sent will help to guide you as to how to respond appropriately. Again, respond based on instructions. If it's a "regret only" RSVP, send only a card if you are unable to attend.Identify what type of RSVP card has been sent to you.
- 2Keep in mind that event organizers often receive too many confirmations to spend much time reading through long response cards. What's important is that you've indicated your attendance or non-attendance to the event. In some cases, you may just have to fill in a stub inside the RSVP card, and that will serve as your response card. In other cases, however, you would have to be the one to create your own response card. It should contain the following parts:Keep the card as objective and brief as possible.
- Short note to express your appreciation of the invitation.
- Event description.
- Date and time.
- Contact number.
- Not attending.
- To contact further. This option is used only in special cases. For example, if it's an invitation to a conference to be a speaker and you are not sure whether you are available yet, you need to clarify some details like how much they'll pay you, and you can indicate this instead. In this way, you are letting the event organizers know that you will be in contact prior to the event. In most cases, this will lead them to be the one to reach out to you right away to provide clarification.
- Other Details. This will include other details that you would like the person who invited you to know in case you will be unable to attend or will be late. Also, you can use this section in case you are sending another person instead to attend on your behalf. Feel free to write other details here to explain how you will handle the attendance to the event.
- 3These are the common scenarios as to who usually accepts RSVP confirmations:Send over your response card, based upon the suggestion on the RSVP card.
- If it's a social occasion such as a wedding, birthday party, anniversary party and the like, it is more likely that you will have to send back your response directly to the celebrants. You can either mail it to them or send it over in person.
- If it's a business event, there are usually people in the company or a third party service provider who are assigned to the task of coordinating attendance. In most cases, these are the only ones you need to send your confirmation to. It is crucial that you send your confirmation to the right people, as these types of events usually follow a system in which there is no overlap of roles and responsibilities. If you do not adhere to certain instructions, it is highly likely that your confirmation will not be recognized or that it can get lost.
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Receiving RSVP Cards
- 1Doing this is not only going to create some confusion for the people preparing for the event, but it is also downright disrespectful. Out of basic courtesy, it's only right that you acknowledge and respond to an invitation, whether or not you are able to attend.Completely ignoring the invitation.
- 2Responding late is not any better than ignoring the invitation. Keep in mind that there is a reason why a time frame is given, and it is a bare minimum to adhere to when responding.Not responding within the indicated time frame.
- 3At least make sure that when you do send over a response, you are sending it to the right people. Otherwise, your response may end up not getting counted, and this leads to confusion.Confirming attendance to the wrong person.
- 4Avoid sending over a response if you are not 100 percent sure of your decision. Make sure that when you do make a confirmation or decline an invitation, that it is your final answer and that there will be no more changes.Constantly changing your decision.
- 5Taking the initiative to invite someone else for the occasion or event without communicating this to the event organizer is not proper. This is especially the case for more specialized events. Doing this will only put the person inviting and the person who volunteered to replace you in an uncomfortable situation.Passing on the invitation to someone else.
- 6Take note whether or not the invitation includes a plus one. If it does not, don't presume you can show up with a date. Pay careful attention to the envelope the invitation came in, as that might be your only indication that you can bring a guest or plus one.Plus one?Advertisement
Questions and Answers
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